How to with adolescent children, grow together

Thank God gives us children so that we can from kids who really enjoy , a lot of joy and a lot of fun , and can with the child grow together , from the child's life have a lot of learning. As children grow , we are often asked , and reflect on their own , God gave me this industry, I want her to where? in their lives Them , whether they do something, they own what kind of burden? For example: they want to engage in what work? They need to learn is at this stage most important a point in time .

When they find them in life in front of the goal and direction when they enter college , be sure to start thinking of the future to read which side of the class system , for many young people are making them feel at a loss for a Things. On the one hand they are too young, the other is that sometimes they really do not know their future for in which side the industry now of the choose which side class system. American education children from junior high school , when in school general there is a interest tests , some Christians site on also have this the test the subject of can provide our children to understand clearly , whether in their own knowledge , Talent , the interest on individual fine all aspects of in the end his thinking the direction of is not suitable for him . As a Christian parent , want the child in accordance with their interests , and his gift can be for God . On the one hand to help children have some interest in test , in addition to some websites , in fact, in school , some teachers can help their students have some understanding. This is helpful , because this is a person's interest, character , and so all parties to have more and more accurate and comprehensive understanding. Another very important point is , if the parents of children in the future the selected class , Department of is not very understanding , he can ask some of his friends or in this respect some understanding some people to with their children talk .

Strictly speaking, in the choice of when, in fact not the best time. Should be from their small, often share with them some of their interests , and even dreaming about the future to do does not matter. If so , the choice of when , not that there is no worry, but stripped of loss. For example : When the children to choose a reading psychology, such a choice, with his faith whether together ? Theology with psychology in many ways mutually exclusive. But by our church a good sister , she is learning in this regard, once her own initiative told me about , she was willing to with our daughter talk to help her, in the absence of entering the school before a mental Preparation. She knew that psychology can be used in serving the above because that I am more sure my little daughter's choice, I have more at ease . Through of psychology the study , but also be able to of human nature have deeper understanding . On people's psychological all aspects of state , needs. Through a number of academic knowledge, but also to for people the different needs to help them.

When the children entered college , parents are also worried and frightened, but also looking forward to . Because parents know that this is children leave their parents after the , the real show of her own , the real his to God time of . Because parents are not around her . This is the expected part. could not bear to The mood have, when the child has grown to a stageThere will be joy. kids go to college After the , parents also understand from now on, their return home days of fewer and fewer , finish college , get married , their own families , have their own world and life. When the child was flown , we parents can do is continued for them pray , because their parents away, only God is them to rely on . Regardless of his in any one of situation which , if God had become his help, parents will not worry about it. Parents and children will also be a good friend, whether in telephone or computer , there will be a lot of sharing. We can see from the role of parents into a real good friend. Can with him share life the joy of , or is painful sorrow. Want their children in times of difficulties , the parents of one in his side to encourage him , help him a role.

On how to influence the children, will test before the parents their children the impact how important . When children have problems , he is not the first thought with their parents to discuss , is not solid in a very strict a rock top of . This is children the process of growing need their parents to establish a trust that he faced several difficulties , do not know how to choose and face , the first to thought is to their parents talk .