What happens in a church : a Christian husband and wife wedding night , the brothers found his wife Bing , after non- virgins too difficult , and very disappointed that she did not " chaste . " So, according to the teachings of the Bible , how to handle this situation ? Husband to lift the marriage relationship, or should be tolerance and understanding?
What happens in a church : a Christian husband and wife wedding night , the brothers found his wife Bing , after non- virgins too difficult , and very disappointed that she did not " chaste . " Confess everything to his wife , Bing explained that she believed the Lord had other boyfriends before MN frequency revealed improper sexual experience before marriage . However, the main letter , she has repented Bing learned self-love , no physical crime . However , she and her husband are now contacts , I feel he is too conservative , afraid not accept her past , and he dared not say so ... ... But the paper is smoke there's fire , things were revealed, who also heard how brothers Not enter his wife 's explanation that he was deceived , but also consider themselves very conservative , willing and "non- virgin "marriage , then divorce . He said he could not stomach that she is not a virgin of this matter, but could not bear to hide her and think this will affect their life, even if reluctantly with my heart will have a pimple , do not forget as soon be over . So, according to the teachings of the Bible , how to handle this situation ? Husband to lift the marriage relationship, or should be tolerance and understanding?
Niuyuenanta Light Baptist Church Pastor , director Gu Qiwei Answer:
Dear readers , this Christian couple can become a hundred years is worth congratulating the good things He Hao . But their combination is worth discussion in detail.
First, the brothers of love overnight changed the face because of his wife's past is not a result of chastity , also shows that the conservative brethren , but too narrow thinking led him from one extreme to the other extreme , shows that he In view of the immaturity of marriage .
The second , in fact, the first from the perspective of God , the world are sinners , are contaminated with filthy world , including that of the faithful wife , have a sin against God , to offend people, sins against his own body parts , so we need to Precious Blood of Jesus Christ and the pardon covered . Even if the brothers know his wife had a bad past , she should be pardoned from the heart , because it was committed by her ignorance , not to mention God has forgiven her sins . The husband should forgive sinners from the perspective of God to love his wife .
Thirdly, the sisters , they should understand that love should start making friends Zhi You should know this. There are friends to each other early Christians , in particular, to lay before the marriage , usually in dealings with each other to explain their love of natural history and experience, the other party 's understanding and trust. Here's a confidence problem , if she bravely face this difficulty, tears of repentance , the Holy Spirit can move each other to forgive this sin .
Fourth, the brothers want to get married later withdraw from the husband and wife with divorce is to meet his good strong heart, that he is innocent, holy, this would be inappropriate. He does not understand that divorce brings a series of difficult problems , are inconceivable . Both are great for combat and scars . Brothers should think about themselves and then " holy "or with a sinful nature. Since God can pardon sinners on earth , since God has released his wife , why he could not forgive her?
Fifth, the brother of the idea is too simple rash and reckless , but also should be a change of their own personality.
In short, the couple find the best church pastor and marriage counselor for help , to understand the meaning of marriage in order to achieve mutual forgiveness , mutual forgiveness and mutual tolerance , repair loopholes in marriage , the love of Jesus Christ to forgive each other , to re-establish A satisfactory relationship of marriage .
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