Christian Husband - How To Attract Him Quicker And Make Him Beg You For Marriage Fast! (3)

Christian Husbands Love Zero Pride

I understand that we all need to show a good measure of confidence and high self esteem always. The only problem is that these good traits seem are often taken to the other extreme by many single Christian women. And that explains why many find it hard to attract the correct potential Christian husband.

If I'm to put it straight, then know that to gain his friendship you would need an attitude of...

Zero pride means being approachable to everyone. This is particularly crucial in church, if you ever want to attract a good Christian husband. Our Father - the almighty God whose core nature is love - doesn't see anything wrong in opposing the proud (James 4:6 RSV). Though many sons of God may find it hard to oppose pride like our Father does, but they certainly find it easy to run away from it.

You're like a super star...

You see, once you've got yourself a fair deal of good report circulating, your public image (at least within your local church community) will go up. Now that's really a very good development. But what you may not know is that your magnified status will give even the most confident brother a few strokes of self-doubt when he thinks of approaching you for a relationship. Many of them will rather send you emissaries than approach you personally. And worse still a large number of them (including those you really want) may hang around you for long and never muster enough guts to make their good intentions known to you.

They are scared of approaching you...

The only way to avoid this bottleneck situation is to make sincere humility a sizable part of your good report mix. And always make sure it's clearly noticed from a distance.

A sure way to make that happen fast is to practice the art of laughing out loud and heartily without appearing like a freak! It's true that our emotionally insecure society teaches us that to preserve our perceived dignity we must suppress our emotions. But you have to break that rule when you interact with people, especially those in your service group. Doing so will give you a vivid aura of innocence and simplicity. And everyone wants to be friends with a merry innocent girl!

Make them feel accepted...

In final analysis, humility is essentially about acknowledging your humanity. It's just about constantly reminding yourself that you can sure always be better than you are, but never better than anyone else. If you keep thinking like this always, you'll naturally become approachable to everyone. And that's just the only way to keep potential Christian husbands from running away from you!