The Break Up Was Messy! Do You Really Want to Get Him Back in Your Life?

Your relationship had its ups and downs - more downs than ups though, until it came to a head and you broke up. There were many little arguments, almost daily in fact, but you always seemed to be able to fix them. Now, though, you had a really huge argument, and the relationship ended. Now you want to know how to get him back in your life.

If most of those little arguments that you had during your relationship were started by your ex, then he was obviously a controlling person. It sounds as if he wanted things his way, and if you didn't conform, then he would complain about it. Unless of course, it was little annoying things that you were doing or saying that caused the arguments.

These are all the things that you need to think about and analyze before making the decision to get him back in your life. If you and your ex were constantly clashing because of things that you were doing, then you need to think carefully about these things and how you are going to fix them.

If you love your ex and would like to get back together again, then you are going to have to be willing to change your ways and your attitude as well. It will be difficult, but if it means having a chance to get him back in your life, then it will be worth all the effort you put into it.

However, if most of the tiffs you had were caused by your ex not being happy because you were not doing something to his liking, then you might have an even more difficult decision to make. He is a controlling person who wants his own way most of the time and you need to decide whether you will be happy to be in this type of relationship or not.

In short, before you try to get him back in your life, you need to decide whether you love him enough to be willing to be his doormat again. In other words, you will be dancing to his tune all the time, and you will be getting back into a one-sided relationship again - is it really worth it?

Whether you are still together and having problems or you are already seperated and want to save your relationship... the next step is absolutely crucial!

Don't make the mistake of saying or doing something that will kill your chances of getting back together with your boyfriend. Find out what you need to do to save your relationship and emotionally reconnect with him again.