Scientists at CERN, the research facility that's home to the Large Hadron Collider, claim to have successfully created and stored antimatter in greater quantities and for longer times than ever before.cheap ugg boots 2010
Researchers created 38 atoms of antihydrogen – more than ever has been produced at one time before and were able to keep the atoms stable enough to last one tenth of a second before they annihilated themselves (antimatter and matter destroy each other the moment they come into contact with each other). Since those first experiments, the team claims to have held antiatoms for even longer, though they weren't specific of the duration.
While scientists have been able to create particles of antimatter for decades, they had previously only been able to produce a few particles that would almost instantly destroy themselves.
"This is the first major step in a long journey," Michio Kaku, physicist and author of Physics of the Impossible, told PCMag. "Eventually, we may go to the stars."
For now, scientists are interested in producing antimatter in these relatively large quantities because it could lend insight into fundamental physical laws. It's generally believed in the scientific community that at the universe's creation, both matter and antimatter existed but not in the same quantity, so when the two annihilated each other, only matter remained. That could be because antimatter behaves differently than the regular variety.
"It's a fundamental tenet of physics that antimatter and matter behave very similarly although not exactly," said Lawrence Krauss, physicist and author of The Physics of Star Trek, in an interview. "And in order to really test that, you need anti-atoms. Being able to test the properties of antimatter at a whole new level of precision is obviously important."
Further into the future, Kaku believes we may be able to use antimatter as the "ultimate rocket fuel," since it's 100 percent efficient – all of the mass is converted to energy. By contrast, thermonuclear bombs only use about 1 percent.
"One of the main uses of antimatter would be a starship," said Kaku "Because you want concentrated energy. And you can't get more concentrated than antimatter."australia ugg boots 2010
Producing large quantities of antimatter is impossible today, Kaku admits. But with the right developments, he thinks it could become a reality: "These machines were not specifically designed to create antimatter. These machines are all-purpose machines. But with time, price goes down, mass production, better technology, and dedicated machines we could reduce costs considerably."
Krauss isn't as bullish as Kaku on the long-term applications of antimatter. Even though he is the author of The Physics of Star Trek, Krauss had just one thing to say when asked about antimatter-powered starships.
"Don't hold your breath."
2010年11月16日星期二
Agri SA to list who owns every farm
AGRI SA says it has initiated a national project to document all agricultural land ownership to gather up-to- date data on levels of land distribution and its effects on black empowerment.ugg 5815
Addressing a media briefing after the organisation’s strategic committees’ discussions in Centurion, south of Pretoria, yesterday, Africa relations chairman Theo de Jager said neither the government nor the farming community had any idea who owned which land and where.
There has been no accurate government data since 1994 on how much land was in the hands of whites, or owned by the state, or bought or given to blacks. Some emerging black farmers were buying land directly from the market.
"The only way to find out is to physically go from farm to farm to document the ownership so we could also be sure of how many beneficiaries of land programmes are out there," he said.
The data would be likely to assist the government, he said, which is in the process of introducing a new land affairs bill. ugg 5825
The industry has been crippled by lack of investment in farm infrastructure due to fears that the bill will encourage expropriation without compensation. Mr de Jager said Agri SA was eager to have the bill released for public comment, as the suspense was fuelling speculation and creating uncertainty .
"The industry needs to know where the country’s policy takes us so that the farming environment could stabilise and farmers begin to invest in the farms such as the plantation of new orchards, et cetera."
He said the body appreciated the growing number of emerging black farmers who were joining various Agri SA-affiliated structures. ugg 5803
These were often black farmers who took calculated risks by buying land and who were collaborating with their white peers in farming projects, rather than waiting for the government to give them land.
Agri SA president Johannes M?ller said other topics discussed were about invitations from neighbouring states for South African farmers to lease land and start farming to improve their capacity.
The Democratic Republic of Congo was the first country to extend an open invitation a few years ago and since then at least 22 African countries have done the same.ugg 5854
Due to its proximity, Mozambique had also attracted at least 800 farmers who had signed deals to expand their operations to that country, he said.
Mr de Jager said it was in SA’s interests to share as much knowledge with its neighbours, because country borders in the Southern African Development Community were becoming much more fluid .
"We have to work closely to build capacity and proactively work at preventing the spread of disease, particularly the ones carried across the borders by animals, such as foot and mouth."
The agricultural body also expressed concern about a proposed water regime, saying it would be engaging with the government to discuss water rights which affected farmers.ugg 5819
Addressing a media briefing after the organisation’s strategic committees’ discussions in Centurion, south of Pretoria, yesterday, Africa relations chairman Theo de Jager said neither the government nor the farming community had any idea who owned which land and where.
There has been no accurate government data since 1994 on how much land was in the hands of whites, or owned by the state, or bought or given to blacks. Some emerging black farmers were buying land directly from the market.
"The only way to find out is to physically go from farm to farm to document the ownership so we could also be sure of how many beneficiaries of land programmes are out there," he said.
The data would be likely to assist the government, he said, which is in the process of introducing a new land affairs bill. ugg 5825
The industry has been crippled by lack of investment in farm infrastructure due to fears that the bill will encourage expropriation without compensation. Mr de Jager said Agri SA was eager to have the bill released for public comment, as the suspense was fuelling speculation and creating uncertainty .
"The industry needs to know where the country’s policy takes us so that the farming environment could stabilise and farmers begin to invest in the farms such as the plantation of new orchards, et cetera."
He said the body appreciated the growing number of emerging black farmers who were joining various Agri SA-affiliated structures. ugg 5803
These were often black farmers who took calculated risks by buying land and who were collaborating with their white peers in farming projects, rather than waiting for the government to give them land.
Agri SA president Johannes M?ller said other topics discussed were about invitations from neighbouring states for South African farmers to lease land and start farming to improve their capacity.
The Democratic Republic of Congo was the first country to extend an open invitation a few years ago and since then at least 22 African countries have done the same.ugg 5854
Due to its proximity, Mozambique had also attracted at least 800 farmers who had signed deals to expand their operations to that country, he said.
Mr de Jager said it was in SA’s interests to share as much knowledge with its neighbours, because country borders in the Southern African Development Community were becoming much more fluid .
"We have to work closely to build capacity and proactively work at preventing the spread of disease, particularly the ones carried across the borders by animals, such as foot and mouth."
The agricultural body also expressed concern about a proposed water regime, saying it would be engaging with the government to discuss water rights which affected farmers.ugg 5819
Serial rapist suspect arrested in KZN
A man suspected of having raped at least 12 young women since August in Hillbrow was arrested in KwaZulu-Natal on Friday morning, Gauteng police said.sale moncler
"I can confirm that a man was arrested this morning, but I cannot comment further because only Colonel [Gerard] Labuschagne comments on the case," said Captain Katlego Mashego.
Eyewitness News reported he had been arrested in KwaMashu, outside Durban. moncler online
Labuschagne earlier in the week said the man allegedly targeted young black women aged between 19 and 21 in and around the Johannesburg and Pretoria areas.
He said the man allegedly approached a group of women and invited them to celebrate his birthday with him at a nearby restaurant or bar.
Lured to a hotel room
The man later allegedly asked one of them to accompany him to fetch his sister or a friend, taking a metered-taxi into Hillbrow or central Johannesburg.moncler shop
Here he allegedly lured his victim to a hotel room under the pretext of fetching his sister or the friend, or his luggage.
Once inside the room he allegedly raped the woman and held her overnight.
Labuschagne said the man allegedly threatened his victims so they did not scream.
He allegedly also tied some of them up and has had a firearm with him on one occasion.
"In the morning he tells the victim that he is going to draw money or get food and after a while she realises the door is unlocked and she is free," Labuschagne said.ugg boots Classic
The most recent rape was reported last week.
"I can confirm that a man was arrested this morning, but I cannot comment further because only Colonel [Gerard] Labuschagne comments on the case," said Captain Katlego Mashego.
Eyewitness News reported he had been arrested in KwaMashu, outside Durban. moncler online
Labuschagne earlier in the week said the man allegedly targeted young black women aged between 19 and 21 in and around the Johannesburg and Pretoria areas.
He said the man allegedly approached a group of women and invited them to celebrate his birthday with him at a nearby restaurant or bar.
Lured to a hotel room
The man later allegedly asked one of them to accompany him to fetch his sister or a friend, taking a metered-taxi into Hillbrow or central Johannesburg.moncler shop
Here he allegedly lured his victim to a hotel room under the pretext of fetching his sister or the friend, or his luggage.
Once inside the room he allegedly raped the woman and held her overnight.
Labuschagne said the man allegedly threatened his victims so they did not scream.
He allegedly also tied some of them up and has had a firearm with him on one occasion.
"In the morning he tells the victim that he is going to draw money or get food and after a while she realises the door is unlocked and she is free," Labuschagne said.ugg boots Classic
The most recent rape was reported last week.
2010年11月1日星期一
Matfield rallies Boks for tour
Victor Matfield is desperate for South Africa to put their nightmare season behind them and end the year with success on the Grand Slam tour, which starts next week.ugg 1873
The Springboks have endured a torrid 2010 losing five out of 10 Tests - all in the Tri-Nations, where they also turned in their worst performance since the tournament's inception.
"The reality is that we did not perform as well as we could this year and did not meet expectations," the Bulls lock, who will captain the team in the absence of John Smit, said. "We have to put that right and I'm confident that we can do it."moncler store
He added: "The nice thing about this tour is that quite a few of the guys have not played a lot of rugby. We've got no excuses of being tired this time; we've just got to get our heads right and do the job."moncler
Regular skipper Smit recently underwent back surgery and is amongst a host of high-profile players that will be absent for the world champions.
Also out are JP Pietersen, Jaque Fourie, Wynand Olivier, Fourie du Preez, Andries Bekker, Heinrich Brussow, Gurthro Steenkamp and Gary Botha.
The team's showing this year has also put pressure on coach Peter de Villiers, who responded by naming 10 uncapped players in a preliminary group that assembled in Johannesburg over the weekend.moncler jackets
That initial squad of 39 - which has lost a few players along the way through injury - will be cut to an expected 30 when the list is finalised after the Currie Cup final on Saturday.
Matfield, who will be leading the Springboks for the first time on a full tour, continued: "The get-together was good to be able to achieve unity of purpose.
"I know it's difficult for the Sharks and Western Province players, who still have to play the Currie Cup final on Saturday, but I was impressed with the willingness and commitment of the players during the team and field sessions."moncler outlet
The Springboks have endured a torrid 2010 losing five out of 10 Tests - all in the Tri-Nations, where they also turned in their worst performance since the tournament's inception.
"The reality is that we did not perform as well as we could this year and did not meet expectations," the Bulls lock, who will captain the team in the absence of John Smit, said. "We have to put that right and I'm confident that we can do it."moncler store
He added: "The nice thing about this tour is that quite a few of the guys have not played a lot of rugby. We've got no excuses of being tired this time; we've just got to get our heads right and do the job."moncler
Regular skipper Smit recently underwent back surgery and is amongst a host of high-profile players that will be absent for the world champions.
Also out are JP Pietersen, Jaque Fourie, Wynand Olivier, Fourie du Preez, Andries Bekker, Heinrich Brussow, Gurthro Steenkamp and Gary Botha.
The team's showing this year has also put pressure on coach Peter de Villiers, who responded by naming 10 uncapped players in a preliminary group that assembled in Johannesburg over the weekend.moncler jackets
That initial squad of 39 - which has lost a few players along the way through injury - will be cut to an expected 30 when the list is finalised after the Currie Cup final on Saturday.
Matfield, who will be leading the Springboks for the first time on a full tour, continued: "The get-together was good to be able to achieve unity of purpose.
"I know it's difficult for the Sharks and Western Province players, who still have to play the Currie Cup final on Saturday, but I was impressed with the willingness and commitment of the players during the team and field sessions."moncler outlet
2010年10月14日星期四
The secret of turned defeat into victory
Have you ever suffered repeated failures, have to work hard, but in vain. But God has a way to save you, his approach can remedy your past mistakes, so you have to win often sing songs, especially when you are in the face of failure and dark time. Praise the Lord when you win, your failure will become the victory of faith can accomplish very great things, even to past failures can be remedied. God the Father's love because of your faith can become a major event, which is why the confidence to make failure into victory's sake.
Meditation:You are my hiding place; you will preserve me from trouble, to be saved compass me about with songs. ─ ─ Poetry 32:7
Meditation:You are my hiding place; you will preserve me from trouble, to be saved compass me about with songs. ─ ─ Poetry 32:7
He spoke with authority
Matthew 4:19-20
"Jesus said to them:『 Come, follow me ... they forsook their nets and followed him. "(19 ─ 20 sessions)
I remember, in my teacher training days, there is a lecture, instructors in a relaxed way, teaching the meaning of "speak with authority," this serious issue.
Which class is akin to the two lecturers her partner performance, they should have been an actor. They borrowed many of the characters as an example, the Gu Lin Fair (JoyceGrenfell, the late famous British actor) said Fuer Di (BasilFawlty, fictional character, seventies British TV comedy "Fuer Di Hotel" (FawltyTowers) protagonist) on how to avoid "misuse of authority", causing the students laugh. Mid Road Gang is the focus, the real power is not counterfeit, is dependent on the speaker's experience and confidence, and the listener's respect and trust. Authority must also have clear and public recognition of the source.
In Christian marriage, we often hear the opening remarks: "I am now certain delegated powers under the celebrant ...", the Administrative Committee is hereby authorized to confirm or government agency's name. In this case, Jesus can say: "I'm the king of the universe based on, giving the power!" However, he does not need publicity of the mouth. His way of speaking has been showing his authority, so Peter and Andrea, if not fully understand, but also to recognize his authority, is the supreme authority ─ ─ God's authority.
Authority of Jesus often called people to follow him, and that the call clear and uncompromising, not "if ... but ... maybe ...", there is no hesitation, no Rongyan. He only said: "You did so, and I will do OK."
Please note that the Bible does not tell us that Peter and Andre's response. Their actions have told us. Jesus called them, they follow him.
If you search for what in the four Gospels, Jesus will be found to treat each with power lines, rebuke, instruction, are concise. People listen to him later, they followed him.
Lord ah!
Do not seek to make my life in the "net"
Prevents me from listening to your voice,
So I can not "immediately" to follow you.
"Jesus said to them:『 Come, follow me ... they forsook their nets and followed him. "(19 ─ 20 sessions)
I remember, in my teacher training days, there is a lecture, instructors in a relaxed way, teaching the meaning of "speak with authority," this serious issue.
Which class is akin to the two lecturers her partner performance, they should have been an actor. They borrowed many of the characters as an example, the Gu Lin Fair (JoyceGrenfell, the late famous British actor) said Fuer Di (BasilFawlty, fictional character, seventies British TV comedy "Fuer Di Hotel" (FawltyTowers) protagonist) on how to avoid "misuse of authority", causing the students laugh. Mid Road Gang is the focus, the real power is not counterfeit, is dependent on the speaker's experience and confidence, and the listener's respect and trust. Authority must also have clear and public recognition of the source.
In Christian marriage, we often hear the opening remarks: "I am now certain delegated powers under the celebrant ...", the Administrative Committee is hereby authorized to confirm or government agency's name. In this case, Jesus can say: "I'm the king of the universe based on, giving the power!" However, he does not need publicity of the mouth. His way of speaking has been showing his authority, so Peter and Andrea, if not fully understand, but also to recognize his authority, is the supreme authority ─ ─ God's authority.
Authority of Jesus often called people to follow him, and that the call clear and uncompromising, not "if ... but ... maybe ...", there is no hesitation, no Rongyan. He only said: "You did so, and I will do OK."
Please note that the Bible does not tell us that Peter and Andre's response. Their actions have told us. Jesus called them, they follow him.
If you search for what in the four Gospels, Jesus will be found to treat each with power lines, rebuke, instruction, are concise. People listen to him later, they followed him.
Lord ah!
Do not seek to make my life in the "net"
Prevents me from listening to your voice,
So I can not "immediately" to follow you.
Fasting
"I heard this, he sat down and wept, and mourned certain days, in fasting and praying before the God of heaven." (Nigeria 1:4)
Although God has his destiny and will, to the time necessary to success, but often by people's desire and prayer and to achieve, and often man-made vessels, caused by people. We can see that Ezra mentioned, God of the prophets might be fulfilled which excited the hearts of Cyrus (Ezra 1:1), which has prompted the construction of voters back to the temple, and Nehemiah heard of the Holy City because of miserable conditions And pray, and even rebuilt by him to go back.
This man of God may have a heavy burden, that is, on the one hand to obey God, wait on God's time, not anxious, but on the other hand, according to the will have to see, hear the case, according to God the will and earnest prayer, not only obey God rather than call on God, not only waiting for God to come, but not urgently pray early success. Because God wants us and he concentric with the workers, and through us to achieve his goal to complete his work.
Someone with something, but also the work of God, prayer, and even a lot of prayer time, but have not yet achieved, what is this underlying reason why it? What to do? This may be time yet to come, but God through prayer to urge the earlier achievements. So to continue to pray and not aborted. Then prayer may be sincere enough, as mentioned here, there is no crying, sad, fasting in prayer, and did not mind dumping it.
Although God has his destiny and will, to the time necessary to success, but often by people's desire and prayer and to achieve, and often man-made vessels, caused by people. We can see that Ezra mentioned, God of the prophets might be fulfilled which excited the hearts of Cyrus (Ezra 1:1), which has prompted the construction of voters back to the temple, and Nehemiah heard of the Holy City because of miserable conditions And pray, and even rebuilt by him to go back.
This man of God may have a heavy burden, that is, on the one hand to obey God, wait on God's time, not anxious, but on the other hand, according to the will have to see, hear the case, according to God the will and earnest prayer, not only obey God rather than call on God, not only waiting for God to come, but not urgently pray early success. Because God wants us and he concentric with the workers, and through us to achieve his goal to complete his work.
Someone with something, but also the work of God, prayer, and even a lot of prayer time, but have not yet achieved, what is this underlying reason why it? What to do? This may be time yet to come, but God through prayer to urge the earlier achievements. So to continue to pray and not aborted. Then prayer may be sincere enough, as mentioned here, there is no crying, sad, fasting in prayer, and did not mind dumping it.
Good governance, stability and prosperity
Chronicles 8:1-10
1. Good governance, stability and prosperity: the king Solomon in the four decades (see the next generation of 9.30), first focus on the first two decades of construction of the temple and the palace above. Thereafter, he continued good governance. Although his writing in Chronicles, Solomon is the Prince of Peace, and the neighbors friendly, but in order to purge borders, the establishment of peaceful reunification of the country, he also had to lead the troops set off Zobah Hama (3). In addition, he has massive construction projects, the construction of city (2,5), the construction of integrated cargo City (4,6), to invest heavily on building national defense (5,6), created for the people of Israel live in peace and harmony are not afraid of its powerful neighbor harassment environment.
2. Large-scale construction, full employment: For many large construction projects, both require huge supplies of Solomon, but also a huge labor force. Solve the manpower problem in the Solomon requisition all the descendants of the Canaanites as coolie labor; they are occupying the land of Canaan when the people of Israel, not to kill people and their descendants, including the Hittites, Amorites, Billy washing people, hope not, and the Jebusites (7). These have been defeated in the people of Israel, has since become the slaves of the victors, until the age of Chronicles is still so. Solomon's manpower policy, enabling the people of Israel without hard labor, and focus on defense and management (9-10), is a reasonable arrangement.
In Solomon's leadership, Israel's national day by day increased. In Israel, full employment, everyone has a job, the exhibition director, concentric building economic prosperity, stability and prosperity of society.
Solomon for the nation and the people, building a prosperous and stable society, Chronicles of Solomon to this effect made a very positive assessment. However, the prosperity and stability after all the material and cultural level, but more importantly is the people's spiritual connotations. If only for the king to help the people who live in affluent and stable environment, but they ignore their moral and even spiritual life, society will have very easy to corrupt, and even died ease the crisis. In fact, the first recorded Chronicles of the temple project, that the Lord's presence, then it describes Israel's prosperity and stability of society, this is a reflection of the people should seek God first, and then led in pursuit of a better God life. Today, the prosperity and stability not that we dream of life? Life in the pursuit of this ideal process, you see the importance of spiritual meaning? Only emphasized the economic growth of a society, what crises and challenges?
Speed Reading the Book of Jeremiah 13-14 year John Chapter 6
1. Good governance, stability and prosperity: the king Solomon in the four decades (see the next generation of 9.30), first focus on the first two decades of construction of the temple and the palace above. Thereafter, he continued good governance. Although his writing in Chronicles, Solomon is the Prince of Peace, and the neighbors friendly, but in order to purge borders, the establishment of peaceful reunification of the country, he also had to lead the troops set off Zobah Hama (3). In addition, he has massive construction projects, the construction of city (2,5), the construction of integrated cargo City (4,6), to invest heavily on building national defense (5,6), created for the people of Israel live in peace and harmony are not afraid of its powerful neighbor harassment environment.
2. Large-scale construction, full employment: For many large construction projects, both require huge supplies of Solomon, but also a huge labor force. Solve the manpower problem in the Solomon requisition all the descendants of the Canaanites as coolie labor; they are occupying the land of Canaan when the people of Israel, not to kill people and their descendants, including the Hittites, Amorites, Billy washing people, hope not, and the Jebusites (7). These have been defeated in the people of Israel, has since become the slaves of the victors, until the age of Chronicles is still so. Solomon's manpower policy, enabling the people of Israel without hard labor, and focus on defense and management (9-10), is a reasonable arrangement.
In Solomon's leadership, Israel's national day by day increased. In Israel, full employment, everyone has a job, the exhibition director, concentric building economic prosperity, stability and prosperity of society.
Solomon for the nation and the people, building a prosperous and stable society, Chronicles of Solomon to this effect made a very positive assessment. However, the prosperity and stability after all the material and cultural level, but more importantly is the people's spiritual connotations. If only for the king to help the people who live in affluent and stable environment, but they ignore their moral and even spiritual life, society will have very easy to corrupt, and even died ease the crisis. In fact, the first recorded Chronicles of the temple project, that the Lord's presence, then it describes Israel's prosperity and stability of society, this is a reflection of the people should seek God first, and then led in pursuit of a better God life. Today, the prosperity and stability not that we dream of life? Life in the pursuit of this ideal process, you see the importance of spiritual meaning? Only emphasized the economic growth of a society, what crises and challenges?
Speed Reading the Book of Jeremiah 13-14 year John Chapter 6
Can see become blind
This passage is a very great dialogue, a born blind, there is no position of high status with a group of people, well-read Law of the Pharisees dialogue, in which the secret place, that is actually against the blind see Jesus the Son of God, opening the eyes of all but invisible, has become spiritually blind.
Life sleeping in the same spirit as the blind, completely invisible God, they see only a material world, only to see themselves, because they are god of this world blinded, can not let the glory of the Gospel of Christ light of their (Cor 4). Therefore, Jesus said: "can see become blind!"
Unfortunately, there are still many believers today, as if, like the Pharisees, have a lot of spiritual knowledge, but the spiritual eyes are blind, or biased point of view with his Jesus, that Jesus is not acceptable Christ, you can light his life, can change the facts and the charge of his life.
Brothers and sisters, in your life, you feel dark? Felt the need this Jesus? As long as you own all the way down, open your heart, let the light of Christ to your life, you will see the Christ, is real in your life work.
Life sleeping in the same spirit as the blind, completely invisible God, they see only a material world, only to see themselves, because they are god of this world blinded, can not let the glory of the Gospel of Christ light of their (Cor 4). Therefore, Jesus said: "can see become blind!"
Unfortunately, there are still many believers today, as if, like the Pharisees, have a lot of spiritual knowledge, but the spiritual eyes are blind, or biased point of view with his Jesus, that Jesus is not acceptable Christ, you can light his life, can change the facts and the charge of his life.
Brothers and sisters, in your life, you feel dark? Felt the need this Jesus? As long as you own all the way down, open your heart, let the light of Christ to your life, you will see the Christ, is real in your life work.
I have to eat out with your words
Extreme hardship fell on the Prophet Jeremiah and contradictions of a situation, this conflict caused great conflict within him. On the one hand he had with God, and know the true words of God communicated to his people, but attacks on people in return. The pain is so hard to put into words ah! Other hand, he Yiyin the word of God, full of comfort and joy of life, he not only enjoy the sweetness of the myth, but also the people rejected God's blessing, then feel sorry for the loss. Faced with such contradictions, he was only sitting in silence! But he is not giving up, his way of life is the Word of God, him with the confidence of honest dialogue with God, because he experienced the true Word of God, know that this is the life force.
You have suffered abuse for the practice of truth in it? Do not despair, as long as you keep yourself in the Word of God will be able to get a life of comfort and joy, have a life force, to become deficient in mind the pain. The words of God as the bread of life now! Your life shall receive mercy.
You have suffered abuse for the practice of truth in it? Do not despair, as long as you keep yourself in the Word of God will be able to get a life of comfort and joy, have a life force, to become deficient in mind the pain. The words of God as the bread of life now! Your life shall receive mercy.
God has arrived!
Daily devotions October 11, 2010 God has arrived!
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God has arrived!
Luke 7:11-16
"A great prophet has arisen among us ... God has visited his people!" Road 7:16
The woman dressed in mourning, accompanied by relatives and friends, teetering on the road, to mourn her dead son. She once left her husband for the widow died, she has gone through this pain of road. And the historical experience of many people who have the same, she arrived suffering from loss of loved ones (who also take care of her) suffering - now these people have left her out.
Jesus is to a city that she lived, the pain of the mother therefore met the Lord Jesus. Compassion of Jesus have mercy on her, she said: "Do not cry." He died a young man again, said: "Get up!" Young person will be alive again. Resurrection of Jesus the son of this just to the surprise of the mother! This precious gift, the woman rekindle hope in the future, reconstruction of her social status, but also bring new life to her joy. Jesus this very important from the oppression of women is released!
The woman's relatives are the property of praise to God, they cheered: "God has visited his people." They say. Similar Electrolux Elizabeth told Mary she was pregnant when he said (Luke 1:46-55), similar to the birth of John the son of Zechariah in the said (Luke 1:68-75), is similar the angel said to the shepherds of Bethlehem (Luke 2:14): God has visited His people!
When the Lord reveal Himself to you, you will he say?
Prayer
Lord, our rock, our redeemer ah! We would like to mouth the words, meditation of my heart, be pleasing in Thy face (see Psalm 19:14). In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
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God has arrived!
Luke 7:11-16
"A great prophet has arisen among us ... God has visited his people!" Road 7:16
The woman dressed in mourning, accompanied by relatives and friends, teetering on the road, to mourn her dead son. She once left her husband for the widow died, she has gone through this pain of road. And the historical experience of many people who have the same, she arrived suffering from loss of loved ones (who also take care of her) suffering - now these people have left her out.
Jesus is to a city that she lived, the pain of the mother therefore met the Lord Jesus. Compassion of Jesus have mercy on her, she said: "Do not cry." He died a young man again, said: "Get up!" Young person will be alive again. Resurrection of Jesus the son of this just to the surprise of the mother! This precious gift, the woman rekindle hope in the future, reconstruction of her social status, but also bring new life to her joy. Jesus this very important from the oppression of women is released!
The woman's relatives are the property of praise to God, they cheered: "God has visited his people." They say. Similar Electrolux Elizabeth told Mary she was pregnant when he said (Luke 1:46-55), similar to the birth of John the son of Zechariah in the said (Luke 1:68-75), is similar the angel said to the shepherds of Bethlehem (Luke 2:14): God has visited His people!
When the Lord reveal Himself to you, you will he say?
Prayer
Lord, our rock, our redeemer ah! We would like to mouth the words, meditation of my heart, be pleasing in Thy face (see Psalm 19:14). In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
2010年10月8日星期五
Three of Adam and Eve really it? Or the Garden of Eden is just a fairy tale?
I believe this is true. This is what happened to all the best explanation. "Adam" (Adam) the name means "red" or "dust as the" person is also a general. Of course, Adam must have a spouse, and give birth to the world from that of the ancestor of all other people. If one day, I found that God created the story is a parable of human description, still will not shake my confidence.
These are not just similar to the human ancestor of human biology, or anthropology, said the tower primitive Neanderthal (Neanderthal creatures). They are made, according to the image of God, the beauty of human beings, have a high intelligence and ability. If people partial to his own way, he must sink rather than up upgrade.
Some people may ask: where the Garden of Eden? The Bible says in the east of Israel, and that four related to the river: more than Johnson, Basic Training, Greece at the end node, and the Euphrates River (Note: Genesis chapter ten to fourteen). These limited data show that the Garden of Eden in Iraq may be near in today, or in northern Syria.
The ancient Chinese culture may also referred to the Garden of Eden. Chinese characters, the "West" refers to the Chinese character of two people in a garden. The word is at least three thousand years ago the invention. This symbol is worth noting, and its existence may indicate a neglected thing, the Chinese are very likely to come from the West, perhaps the end of Results from Greece and the Euphrates River, one valley, the ancestors of the Chinese people but also on human ancestors lived in the garden of the story is very familiar with - may be the Garden of Eden too!
These are not just similar to the human ancestor of human biology, or anthropology, said the tower primitive Neanderthal (Neanderthal creatures). They are made, according to the image of God, the beauty of human beings, have a high intelligence and ability. If people partial to his own way, he must sink rather than up upgrade.
Some people may ask: where the Garden of Eden? The Bible says in the east of Israel, and that four related to the river: more than Johnson, Basic Training, Greece at the end node, and the Euphrates River (Note: Genesis chapter ten to fourteen). These limited data show that the Garden of Eden in Iraq may be near in today, or in northern Syria.
The ancient Chinese culture may also referred to the Garden of Eden. Chinese characters, the "West" refers to the Chinese character of two people in a garden. The word is at least three thousand years ago the invention. This symbol is worth noting, and its existence may indicate a neglected thing, the Chinese are very likely to come from the West, perhaps the end of Results from Greece and the Euphrates River, one valley, the ancestors of the Chinese people but also on human ancestors lived in the garden of the story is very familiar with - may be the Garden of Eden too!
2010年10月7日星期四
Physiological changes of a beautiful golden girl
Physiology of the total days each month can not drink,KSongs, eating spicy food... ...But you know this time is in fact a woman becomes beautiful period? Breast, fat burning, improve memory, detox, etc. usually difficult to do things in this golden period can be easily reached.
Women will experience life400Several periods, each2-8Days. So doing, the woman's life1 / 10And physiology of all tangled. Dysmenorrhea, emotional, etc. Though it is the fault of the period, but the experts advise:"Menstrual period, under the control of the pituitary hormones, female hormones estrogen and progesterone secretion decrease, this is a very subtle physiological adjustment process, this time, breast, abdomen and other series usually make you a headache can easily reached!"
Reached on the most vulnerable to the physiological5Kinds of effects
1, Breast
Sharon*Stone flat chest while the business for a few years, the chestSIZEBy leaps and bounds! Her secret is not filled breast surgery, with only the physical development of hormonal changes on the special diet.
Medical experts said the United States, menstruation1-3Days is breast best time, because it3Days of chest fullness of ovarian estrogen24Hours equivalent secretion, can stimulate breast fat accumulation. If this3Days, eat carrots, potatoes, soy and nuts food, breast effect will be better than usual3As above. Papaya is recognized as the best breast food, but medical experts also stress that only the help of the lactic acid bacteria, the body can absorb the effect of a breast and papaya enzyme papain. So want to make the chest more plentiful, it may be to their ownDIYA cup of papaya yogurt.
In addition, the calcium in food is also very important, the latest German survey shows calcium can stimulate hormone secretion. You may try to pre-menstrual2Days, they begin to eat the oral calcium. Experts point out that human intake of calcium each less than or equal to300Ml, absorbed the best. So I suggest you choose a small dose of calcium, many taking small doses of calcium absorption is better than better off taking large doses of calcium.
2, Fat Burn
Dutch sports medicine experts point out that fluctuations of the fat-burning hormone influential. They last menstrual2After days and menstruation1Zhou called"Fat burning benefits of"During this period, the body break down fats and higher than usual2Percent. During this time suggest that you burn body fat through proper exercise, especially abdominal fat accumulation. For your health, burn fat is more important than weight loss.
Suggest you last menstrual2Days, daily20Minutes of yoga,15Minutes of brisk walking and stretching a few simple little tricks. After menstruation1Weeks, daily30Minutes of aerobic exercise. Sports medicine experts recommend, per hour6.5Km brisk walking exercise, the most effective for burning body fat. Fast attention to the abdomen when the force, imagine the body hanging in the air as fast as walking, which is most helpful in burning belly fat, abdomen with unexpected results. Abdomen was tense after exercise is normal, this is a necessary process of decomposition of abdominal fat,2-3Days later able to resume a soft abdomen.
A medical survey, women during menstruation than usual high degree of desire for food25%. This is not a bad thing! At this point you can eat sweets rarely touch. Experts point out that before the menstrual period3Days, the body's tolerance than usual into the high two on the decomposition rate of unsaturated fatty acids than non-menstrual phase high one into the half. These days, you can do things correct weight-loss food!
But do not order to consolidate the body effect, try a variety of diet pills. Worse during menstruation the body immune system, hormonal balance, diet pills can easily be disrupted in the chemical composition of ground, but negative body sculpting, or even result in menstrual disorders.
3And improve memory
German women's health experts say, women in the estrogen synthesis process, the need for a special aromatase, the enzyme by nerve conduction of the cerebral cortex responsible for memory cell stimulation. Secretion of aromatase on the last peak in the physiological1-2Days, if you want to improve memory, it may be the tail end of the physiological, memorizing English words or poetry to do mental exercises.
You can also chewing gum while doing exercises, because chewing stimulates the brain in charge of memory the hippocampus. More importantly, the chewing gum can stimulate saliva production, saliva enzyme aromatase to work together to help, let the high cerebral cortex cell activity than usual14%, The memory can be enhanced in the short period of time.
In addition, you can try the German medical experts Row*Xi Deqi teach small coup, he said:"The bodily functions of women during menstruation are more sensitive to touch as long as the Society of rational points, we can get to the brain'Potential ability'. Specific methods is simple: from top to bottom with the thumb and index finger and gently massage the ear,3Minutes, then index finger, press hard on the temple1Minutes. This approach can promote cortical blood flow, eliminate fatigue and memory impairment.
4Found that small health problems
U.S. medical experts called to the physiological"Physiological mirror". During this period the most of your immune system is weak, some hidden in the body of the health problems most likely a small leak at the time of sleep. But this is definitely not a bad thing! Because you can normally find difficult to show that the health warning, early detection can be improved early.
Problem1: Bags under the eyes, dark circles
Obviously get enough sleep8Hours, how can they withstand the bags under the eyes and dark circles? Japanese health experts say that means not enough blood circulation in your body, smooth, high blood viscosity, probably related with the excessive intake of meat products. Recommend a balanced diet, reduce intake of meat, dairy products in the diet and beans added.
Problem2: Bleeding gums
Why is one of the gums to bleed easily physiology? This is not health-related gum is gum inflammation precursor. Recommended to the clinic after the end of menstruation scaling to remove tartar cause inflammation, to prevent further spread of inflammation, serious brush your teeth, gargle with salt water. In addition, large amounts of calcium, iron ions with the blood loss, which is the cause physiological causes of bleeding gums, recommended daily calcium, and adequate intake of vitaminD.
Problem3: Hair prone to breakage
If your hair has become particularly vulnerable in the physiological, easy to break, it is likely that you have anemia at the edge! Menstrual period, the lack of amino acid supply of the hair, keratin protein content decreased, there will be"Temporary physiological anemia", Causing hair breakage. Should eat more foods with iron minerals, such as spinach, etc., in order to improve the body anemia risk.
5Detoxification
Singapore medical experts found that women from menstruation1Day, the body secretes a unit smaller than the cell protein-Enzyme. This enzyme can break down toxins, so that the blood changes from acidic to alkaline, and help detoxify the body effectively. U.S. health experts snow Langdon*Green said the amount of drinking water period of great help to detoxify the body, so drink physiological1000Ml of water is necessary.
Medical experts also said that women in higher than usual sensitivity to the body during menstruation15%And gently tap a few special points, we can stimulate the body's metabolism, and promote the body toxins. But experts also emphasized that rather than be forced to tap gently massage.
Yongquan: When you force the toes bent when the front foot is Yongquan depression occurs. Gently tap the meridian passing through the role of Yongquan, regulate your autonomic nervous system, help you expand blood vessels, promote skin blood circulation, speed up the removal of toxins, reduce blood viscosity.
The full three years: with the right hand palm right knee at the top of standard, fingers down, one finger out the middle finger to the top position is the right leg full three years. For the left hand in the same way can be found in the full three years left leg and gently tap the point, can promote the digestive system to speed up removal of toxins and boost the body immunity.
Women will experience life400Several periods, each2-8Days. So doing, the woman's life1 / 10And physiology of all tangled. Dysmenorrhea, emotional, etc. Though it is the fault of the period, but the experts advise:"Menstrual period, under the control of the pituitary hormones, female hormones estrogen and progesterone secretion decrease, this is a very subtle physiological adjustment process, this time, breast, abdomen and other series usually make you a headache can easily reached!"
Reached on the most vulnerable to the physiological5Kinds of effects
1, Breast
Sharon*Stone flat chest while the business for a few years, the chestSIZEBy leaps and bounds! Her secret is not filled breast surgery, with only the physical development of hormonal changes on the special diet.
Medical experts said the United States, menstruation1-3Days is breast best time, because it3Days of chest fullness of ovarian estrogen24Hours equivalent secretion, can stimulate breast fat accumulation. If this3Days, eat carrots, potatoes, soy and nuts food, breast effect will be better than usual3As above. Papaya is recognized as the best breast food, but medical experts also stress that only the help of the lactic acid bacteria, the body can absorb the effect of a breast and papaya enzyme papain. So want to make the chest more plentiful, it may be to their ownDIYA cup of papaya yogurt.
In addition, the calcium in food is also very important, the latest German survey shows calcium can stimulate hormone secretion. You may try to pre-menstrual2Days, they begin to eat the oral calcium. Experts point out that human intake of calcium each less than or equal to300Ml, absorbed the best. So I suggest you choose a small dose of calcium, many taking small doses of calcium absorption is better than better off taking large doses of calcium.
2, Fat Burn
Dutch sports medicine experts point out that fluctuations of the fat-burning hormone influential. They last menstrual2After days and menstruation1Zhou called"Fat burning benefits of"During this period, the body break down fats and higher than usual2Percent. During this time suggest that you burn body fat through proper exercise, especially abdominal fat accumulation. For your health, burn fat is more important than weight loss.
Suggest you last menstrual2Days, daily20Minutes of yoga,15Minutes of brisk walking and stretching a few simple little tricks. After menstruation1Weeks, daily30Minutes of aerobic exercise. Sports medicine experts recommend, per hour6.5Km brisk walking exercise, the most effective for burning body fat. Fast attention to the abdomen when the force, imagine the body hanging in the air as fast as walking, which is most helpful in burning belly fat, abdomen with unexpected results. Abdomen was tense after exercise is normal, this is a necessary process of decomposition of abdominal fat,2-3Days later able to resume a soft abdomen.
A medical survey, women during menstruation than usual high degree of desire for food25%. This is not a bad thing! At this point you can eat sweets rarely touch. Experts point out that before the menstrual period3Days, the body's tolerance than usual into the high two on the decomposition rate of unsaturated fatty acids than non-menstrual phase high one into the half. These days, you can do things correct weight-loss food!
But do not order to consolidate the body effect, try a variety of diet pills. Worse during menstruation the body immune system, hormonal balance, diet pills can easily be disrupted in the chemical composition of ground, but negative body sculpting, or even result in menstrual disorders.
3And improve memory
German women's health experts say, women in the estrogen synthesis process, the need for a special aromatase, the enzyme by nerve conduction of the cerebral cortex responsible for memory cell stimulation. Secretion of aromatase on the last peak in the physiological1-2Days, if you want to improve memory, it may be the tail end of the physiological, memorizing English words or poetry to do mental exercises.
You can also chewing gum while doing exercises, because chewing stimulates the brain in charge of memory the hippocampus. More importantly, the chewing gum can stimulate saliva production, saliva enzyme aromatase to work together to help, let the high cerebral cortex cell activity than usual14%, The memory can be enhanced in the short period of time.
In addition, you can try the German medical experts Row*Xi Deqi teach small coup, he said:"The bodily functions of women during menstruation are more sensitive to touch as long as the Society of rational points, we can get to the brain'Potential ability'. Specific methods is simple: from top to bottom with the thumb and index finger and gently massage the ear,3Minutes, then index finger, press hard on the temple1Minutes. This approach can promote cortical blood flow, eliminate fatigue and memory impairment.
4Found that small health problems
U.S. medical experts called to the physiological"Physiological mirror". During this period the most of your immune system is weak, some hidden in the body of the health problems most likely a small leak at the time of sleep. But this is definitely not a bad thing! Because you can normally find difficult to show that the health warning, early detection can be improved early.
Problem1: Bags under the eyes, dark circles
Obviously get enough sleep8Hours, how can they withstand the bags under the eyes and dark circles? Japanese health experts say that means not enough blood circulation in your body, smooth, high blood viscosity, probably related with the excessive intake of meat products. Recommend a balanced diet, reduce intake of meat, dairy products in the diet and beans added.
Problem2: Bleeding gums
Why is one of the gums to bleed easily physiology? This is not health-related gum is gum inflammation precursor. Recommended to the clinic after the end of menstruation scaling to remove tartar cause inflammation, to prevent further spread of inflammation, serious brush your teeth, gargle with salt water. In addition, large amounts of calcium, iron ions with the blood loss, which is the cause physiological causes of bleeding gums, recommended daily calcium, and adequate intake of vitaminD.
Problem3: Hair prone to breakage
If your hair has become particularly vulnerable in the physiological, easy to break, it is likely that you have anemia at the edge! Menstrual period, the lack of amino acid supply of the hair, keratin protein content decreased, there will be"Temporary physiological anemia", Causing hair breakage. Should eat more foods with iron minerals, such as spinach, etc., in order to improve the body anemia risk.
5Detoxification
Singapore medical experts found that women from menstruation1Day, the body secretes a unit smaller than the cell protein-Enzyme. This enzyme can break down toxins, so that the blood changes from acidic to alkaline, and help detoxify the body effectively. U.S. health experts snow Langdon*Green said the amount of drinking water period of great help to detoxify the body, so drink physiological1000Ml of water is necessary.
Medical experts also said that women in higher than usual sensitivity to the body during menstruation15%And gently tap a few special points, we can stimulate the body's metabolism, and promote the body toxins. But experts also emphasized that rather than be forced to tap gently massage.
Yongquan: When you force the toes bent when the front foot is Yongquan depression occurs. Gently tap the meridian passing through the role of Yongquan, regulate your autonomic nervous system, help you expand blood vessels, promote skin blood circulation, speed up the removal of toxins, reduce blood viscosity.
The full three years: with the right hand palm right knee at the top of standard, fingers down, one finger out the middle finger to the top position is the right leg full three years. For the left hand in the same way can be found in the full three years left leg and gently tap the point, can promote the digestive system to speed up removal of toxins and boost the body immunity.
2010年9月28日星期二
How to with adolescent children, grow together
When they find them in life in front of the goal and direction when they enter college , be sure to start thinking of the future to read which side of the class system , for many young people are making them feel at a loss for a Things. On the one hand they are too young, the other is that sometimes they really do not know their future for in which side the industry now of the choose which side class system. American education children from junior high school , when in school general there is a interest tests , some Christians site on also have this the test the subject of can provide our children to understand clearly , whether in their own knowledge , Talent , the interest on individual fine all aspects of in the end his thinking the direction of is not suitable for him . As a Christian parent , want the child in accordance with their interests , and his gift can be for God . On the one hand to help children have some interest in test , in addition to some websites , in fact, in school , some teachers can help their students have some understanding. This is helpful , because this is a person's interest, character , and so all parties to have more and more accurate and comprehensive understanding. Another very important point is , if the parents of children in the future the selected class , Department of is not very understanding , he can ask some of his friends or in this respect some understanding some people to with their children talk .
Strictly speaking, in the choice of when, in fact not the best time. Should be from their small, often share with them some of their interests , and even dreaming about the future to do does not matter. If so , the choice of when , not that there is no worry, but stripped of loss. For example : When the children to choose a reading psychology, such a choice, with his faith whether together ? Theology with psychology in many ways mutually exclusive. But by our church a good sister , she is learning in this regard, once her own initiative told me about , she was willing to with our daughter talk to help her, in the absence of entering the school before a mental Preparation. She knew that psychology can be used in serving the above because that I am more sure my little daughter's choice, I have more at ease . Through of psychology the study , but also be able to of human nature have deeper understanding . On people's psychological all aspects of state , needs. Through a number of academic knowledge, but also to for people the different needs to help them.
When the children entered college , parents are also worried and frightened, but also looking forward to . Because parents know that this is children leave their parents after the , the real show of her own , the real his to God time of . Because parents are not around her . This is the expected part. could not bear to The mood have, when the child has grown to a stageThere will be joy. kids go to college After the , parents also understand from now on, their return home days of fewer and fewer , finish college , get married , their own families , have their own world and life. When the child was flown , we parents can do is continued for them pray , because their parents away, only God is them to rely on . Regardless of his in any one of situation which , if God had become his help, parents will not worry about it. Parents and children will also be a good friend, whether in telephone or computer , there will be a lot of sharing. We can see from the role of parents into a real good friend. Can with him share life the joy of , or is painful sorrow. Want their children in times of difficulties , the parents of one in his side to encourage him , help him a role.
On how to influence the children, will test before the parents their children the impact how important . When children have problems , he is not the first thought with their parents to discuss , is not solid in a very strict a rock top of . This is children the process of growing need their parents to establish a trust that he faced several difficulties , do not know how to choose and face , the first to thought is to their parents talk .
2010年9月26日星期日
marriage What is ?
Lead: the secret of happiness - studying that marriage and family the wisdom of
In front of two fruit to share the happiness of the secret of the topic , talking about "return to traditional family "and" make life diffuse a little . " This issue, we continue to extend this topic to share in the family life in happiness of another secret is to learn that marriage and family the wisdom of . American marriage expert David Olsen once said: "Marriage is a to learn complex system . " He will be "Marriage is what " tells us: marriage What is ; why the in marriage only love is not enough ? Marriage is a problem how to do? " love again "tells a husband and father the story of , he had to he thought the right way love his wife and children , thinking they have a good future can give the family more happiness and security of , wanted to talk but hurt Family. The brave and wise men, willing to re-learn his in the family role , and finally became a real to the family bring satisfaction and happiness a good husband and father.
" want people to love one another, may all human have to pay the ultimate price for tasks , the most difficult one. other efforts are just for the love to prepare it . "
- Rainier • Maria • Lick (Rainier Maria Rilke)
Marriage, can be all human relationships the most nourishing the people, and most lasting kind of relationship. Ironically, the marriage may be human relationships , the most disappointing setbacks, and the most conflicting kind of relationship.
Marriage can bring great joy , it can be deep pain a source of , but it is strength and vulnerability a unique combination of . In marriage among the individual can find happiness the source of , and the world rest of the . But the marriage may also be on the couple a negative impact , making their marriage thinking about quitting.
Emotional Feelings of is only marriage complexity a part of . Marriage is not an isolated system , there are many factors that affect the marriage , but also by the marriage affected , including social , work, family, religion , friendship , and each person's background , habits and personality traits .
marriage The decline of
In recent decades, there are several to marriage related trends emerging . In American society , the married size the total population percentage of , from in 1970 to 68% decline to 56 % ( U.S. Census Bureau , 1998) .
The second trend is that never married and after the divorce choose not to marry the total population is increasing. Those who have never married the total population from 1970 of 16 % to in 1996 23% . Divorced the total population from in 1970 3% growth of to in 1996 10% .
The third trend is that cohabiting couples of the total population increase. In 1970, only five hundred thousand pairs of men and women living together ; But in 1996, living together the number of as much as 3.7 million pairs ; to 1998, even more than four million pairs .
While most people life, at least will choose married once , but it is obvious choose to remarry who fewer , replaced remain single , or choose to live together without getting married. All in all , marriage in the past three decades, has shown a decline in the phenomenon, and there is no evidence in the foreseeable future, this situation will be any reversal.
marriage The value of
Although the marriage the total population gradually reduce , but marriage is for society, families and individuals still has many advantages. married people Most healthier , live longer , have more wealth and economic assets , and more than singles , and cohabitants have a more satisfying sexual relationship. In addition , those two-parent families grow up in children , usually in the mood and academic performance better . Let us in more detail look at these benefits :
Married, have a more healthy lifestyle .
Married Live longer .
Married, have a more satisfying sexual relationship.
Married, has a more substantial economic assets.
two-parent families Children in are usually better performance .
Why love is not enough ?
"Love is you need all , "" Love makes the world go around , "" Love is never need to say sorry "... ... in our society , there are so many about love quotes , that in this society it seems Stressed love, and give it too much power . Although love is indeed a very powerful emotion , but finds love is a person needs all , it is not practical idea. How do we know that only love is not enough to make marriage a happy it ? from Most of the Americans getting married when they claim to love one another , but the divorce rate remains at 50% to be proved.
In addition , in many couples, one partner than the other happy. This may be the spouse among of marital satisfaction low correlation displayed. The so-called "low relevance " is, if you know the spouse 's marital satisfaction , then so to predict the other party marital satisfaction the accuracy of , only 25 %.
Study also pointed out that many unhappy couples still remain marriage . Fower and Olson (1993 ) in the view different marital relationship types of , it was found that of marriage type the more traditional ( a firm view of religion , the traditional division of labor , for their children education and religion with a high degree of consistency ) of the couples are not happy Ratio than other types of couples to be high, but divorce likelihood of have to much lower .
Problems how to do?
Love is important, but only love and not enough to sustain a healthy, energetic and happy marriage. Maintain relations skills, especially communication and conflict management skills , as the couple to marriage 's commitment in general, is indispensable.
Since each person's personality is different, partners the marriage put into the contents of have each are different, so each couple's relationship is unique. Bread as an example: bread the material ─ ─ flour, yeast , salt , water ─ ─ Each is unique and with the bread very different . Bread and marriage , they are the whole is greater than of all part of the sum . That is why we even know some of the related elements , but also can not be predicted the marital relationship the reasons for .
As husband and wife the relationship between The complexity of , we can not most of situation of do the general inference . Therefore , you are the their marital relationship experts in . If your current partner relationship , there are many unresolved issues , to seek professional help is very important. you The sooner get help , these issues the more likely from between in a stumbling block into a stepping stone .
In front of two fruit to share the happiness of the secret of the topic , talking about "return to traditional family "and" make life diffuse a little . " This issue, we continue to extend this topic to share in the family life in happiness of another secret is to learn that marriage and family the wisdom of . American marriage expert David Olsen once said: "Marriage is a to learn complex system . " He will be "Marriage is what " tells us: marriage What is ; why the in marriage only love is not enough ? Marriage is a problem how to do? " love again "tells a husband and father the story of , he had to he thought the right way love his wife and children , thinking they have a good future can give the family more happiness and security of , wanted to talk but hurt Family. The brave and wise men, willing to re-learn his in the family role , and finally became a real to the family bring satisfaction and happiness a good husband and father.
" want people to love one another, may all human have to pay the ultimate price for tasks , the most difficult one. other efforts are just for the love to prepare it . "
- Rainier • Maria • Lick (Rainier Maria Rilke)
Marriage, can be all human relationships the most nourishing the people, and most lasting kind of relationship. Ironically, the marriage may be human relationships , the most disappointing setbacks, and the most conflicting kind of relationship.
Marriage can bring great joy , it can be deep pain a source of , but it is strength and vulnerability a unique combination of . In marriage among the individual can find happiness the source of , and the world rest of the . But the marriage may also be on the couple a negative impact , making their marriage thinking about quitting.
Emotional Feelings of is only marriage complexity a part of . Marriage is not an isolated system , there are many factors that affect the marriage , but also by the marriage affected , including social , work, family, religion , friendship , and each person's background , habits and personality traits .
marriage The decline of
In recent decades, there are several to marriage related trends emerging . In American society , the married size the total population percentage of , from in 1970 to 68% decline to 56 % ( U.S. Census Bureau , 1998) .
The second trend is that never married and after the divorce choose not to marry the total population is increasing. Those who have never married the total population from 1970 of 16 % to in 1996 23% . Divorced the total population from in 1970 3% growth of to in 1996 10% .
The third trend is that cohabiting couples of the total population increase. In 1970, only five hundred thousand pairs of men and women living together ; But in 1996, living together the number of as much as 3.7 million pairs ; to 1998, even more than four million pairs .
While most people life, at least will choose married once , but it is obvious choose to remarry who fewer , replaced remain single , or choose to live together without getting married. All in all , marriage in the past three decades, has shown a decline in the phenomenon, and there is no evidence in the foreseeable future, this situation will be any reversal.
marriage The value of
Although the marriage the total population gradually reduce , but marriage is for society, families and individuals still has many advantages. married people Most healthier , live longer , have more wealth and economic assets , and more than singles , and cohabitants have a more satisfying sexual relationship. In addition , those two-parent families grow up in children , usually in the mood and academic performance better . Let us in more detail look at these benefits :
Married, have a more healthy lifestyle .
Married Live longer .
Married, have a more satisfying sexual relationship.
Married, has a more substantial economic assets.
two-parent families Children in are usually better performance .
Why love is not enough ?
"Love is you need all , "" Love makes the world go around , "" Love is never need to say sorry "... ... in our society , there are so many about love quotes , that in this society it seems Stressed love, and give it too much power . Although love is indeed a very powerful emotion , but finds love is a person needs all , it is not practical idea. How do we know that only love is not enough to make marriage a happy it ? from Most of the Americans getting married when they claim to love one another , but the divorce rate remains at 50% to be proved.
In addition , in many couples, one partner than the other happy. This may be the spouse among of marital satisfaction low correlation displayed. The so-called "low relevance " is, if you know the spouse 's marital satisfaction , then so to predict the other party marital satisfaction the accuracy of , only 25 %.
Study also pointed out that many unhappy couples still remain marriage . Fower and Olson (1993 ) in the view different marital relationship types of , it was found that of marriage type the more traditional ( a firm view of religion , the traditional division of labor , for their children education and religion with a high degree of consistency ) of the couples are not happy Ratio than other types of couples to be high, but divorce likelihood of have to much lower .
Problems how to do?
Love is important, but only love and not enough to sustain a healthy, energetic and happy marriage. Maintain relations skills, especially communication and conflict management skills , as the couple to marriage 's commitment in general, is indispensable.
Since each person's personality is different, partners the marriage put into the contents of have each are different, so each couple's relationship is unique. Bread as an example: bread the material ─ ─ flour, yeast , salt , water ─ ─ Each is unique and with the bread very different . Bread and marriage , they are the whole is greater than of all part of the sum . That is why we even know some of the related elements , but also can not be predicted the marital relationship the reasons for .
As husband and wife the relationship between The complexity of , we can not most of situation of do the general inference . Therefore , you are the their marital relationship experts in . If your current partner relationship , there are many unresolved issues , to seek professional help is very important. you The sooner get help , these issues the more likely from between in a stumbling block into a stepping stone .
Love Ten Commandments of III - Ten Commandments
Huang Weiren love the Ten Commandments ( c ): to establish a good of love relationship
The third commandment : To avoid fall in love the early , too to his past weak , privacy, the hearts of anxiety, all told each other.
in love Early , if one of them to be honest on the ground , of the past the worst thing , the hearts of anxiety, all spilling into each other's body, but whether the other party is not willing to listen, there are no mentally prepared. Apparently , such an honest performance, because in love before there should not be withheld , but in reality , this is a selfish expression. emotionally Too dependent on each other , be forced love to bring you happy , for your emotions and sense of security responsibility for such a long time down, not only will lose respect for each other , and sometimes lead to the other party can not stand to leave .
past Painful , when it can tell each other , there must be wisdom. Spoke too soon, the other side were you scared off . Too late , they will feel cheated . This is not certain rules. for each person The situation is different , exposure degree of not the same . When it comes to special case , it is best to consult guidance. usually Together they accept the pre-marriage counseling , it will be a good time , in a secure environment to these things all of communicate with out. Love to learn , but also need wisdom.
Whether their partners can have a secret , hidden life ?
In the husband-wife relationship , you can have some of the mystery inside. Husband and wife as two circles , and a lot of common ground. Intersection vary in over time the migration and variation . When the two under the pressure , the intersection where more. When the pressure is relatively hour or two to out to explore. Each person can have A certain percentage of a single of their own secret . But with each other trust the strengthening of , they can be more transparent , but can not be forced . Therefore , the best way is to establish a good love relationship. And transparent is this relationship the result of .
The fourth commandment : to understand the of love psychological dynamics
love Increasingly reluctant , love the fire more difficult to ignite .
ignited The fire need two important elements: to have love the fuel and oxygen.
1, of love the fuel : their own to maintain confidence in , let themselves into an interesting , attractive people.
2 , love oxygen : they need space
Love fear most is the beginning to always stick together. But after a period of time, one person into a "space suitors " , the other is the "intimate relationship Chaser . " When one intends to alienate when the Chaser will feel anxiety, feel psychosocial the love is not enough to go to attract space seekers the attention . This is a very natural phenomenon . Sometimes one chase too hard , the space the seeker will between end .
To maintain a successful love , it is necessary their own to maintain confidence in , to understand from the Department, have their own interest, each other there are considerate and respect . If the other party is not willing , will not to feel safe need , and blindly insist on the other side to meet me.
The fifth commandment : contact After , avoid self-centered , to maintain respect , do not force the other party do not want to do .
They inevitably there are differences, but on the other side to maintain respect, tolerance , kindness attitude. Do not block your lover's goals, try your best to meet his / her needs, look for win-win solution. unless the truth about , so as not to hinder each other to do what he loves to do. to work Communication and conflict resolution skills and seek a win-win approach, go and other meet his needs.
Huang Weiren love the Ten Commandments (f ): revere
To continue to maintain the mutual respect attitude of , not like many couples , as in the tokens of love , the began to disorder their own speak attitude and dress code .
Weiren love the Ten Commandments (g) : Character is more important than appearance
Spouse , the character ( loyalty , kindness, goodness ) than appearance is more important .
Young people are easily the other side of the external conditions attracted to , but in fact character , loyalty , kindness, goodness , than the appearance, how much , places more important . Marriage Can happiness, inner is the key.
Weiren love the Ten Commandments ( VIII): observe each other 's relationships
Do not just focus on the other side of their own how , but also observe each other 's relationships.
In exchange , we should continue to face up , do not by love carried away . Going to visit each other's family , to see with his parents how to get along , with his family how to get along ? relationships How do ? towards animals Attitude ? A person is not healthy relationships, with the future well-being is absolutely relevant. If only nice to you, is very real and dangerous.
When a person self-worth , self-esteem is weak , as long as people are nice , it is easy to sink into , there is no chance to see each other in the end is. So first find self-worth.
Huang Weiren love the Ten Commandments (IX ): to participate in premarital counseling
when the two discussed marriage After , looking counseling to do pre-marital to prepare .
Do psychological testing , let each other know family of origin the background of , with each other communication way of . In premarital counseling , with each other learning to communicate and see each other's differences.
For example, want to have kids ? To , when there ? Family distributed? both sides of the money Views on ? Of both parents Attitude ? To not send money home? to send How much ? If they before marriage have some consensus , then marriage can reduce many problems.
Marriage is equal to two each with an own blueprint to build a marriage house, it is a very difficult task. This is why pre-marital preparation is so important !
Huang Weiren love the Ten Commandments (x) : pre-marital anxiety
To understand some people have " pre-marital anxiety "response.
In the subconscious, obviously love each other, but on the other side there are some doubts. Many people marriage will want to explore whether the may have other options. For example, all of a sudden tell each other , said: " We are going to get married , but I always feel like the opportunity to begin with other people exchanges what , before decisions are not willing to marry you . "
This is a very common phenomenon . Then the other would panic. But please do not immediately become a chaser , desperately chase each other. In fact, this is a faith test of . Remember , love requires space when feel very anxious the time to go to counseling, to focus their growth on . Remember, a healthy self-confidence and personality maturity is attraction the source of . When the other party after a period of exploration of the process, but will willingly follow you forever. Think carefully about the only set foot on the red carpet , it's not a bad thing.
Conclusion : People not the Ten Commandments have do , but the more you do , in the future to eat bitter the less . May God bless each and every of love seeker .
of Dr. Huang Weiren current at Northwestern University School of Medicine clinical psychologist , was the students honored as "Dr. Love" ( Love Dr. ). American love Society of International Speaker . Been invited in the United States , Canada , Singapore, Malaysia, China, Hong Kong, Taiwan led to marriage, family and psychological workshops. in 2001 Malaysian government organized the first International Family Conference as the " most popular speakers . " And in October 2004 was invited the United Nations World Family Conference of keynote speaker . Dr Wong is in May 2002 should be the U.S. government invited to the White House audience with George W. Bush (Bush) president of the three Chinese leaders.
The third commandment : To avoid fall in love the early , too to his past weak , privacy, the hearts of anxiety, all told each other.
in love Early , if one of them to be honest on the ground , of the past the worst thing , the hearts of anxiety, all spilling into each other's body, but whether the other party is not willing to listen, there are no mentally prepared. Apparently , such an honest performance, because in love before there should not be withheld , but in reality , this is a selfish expression. emotionally Too dependent on each other , be forced love to bring you happy , for your emotions and sense of security responsibility for such a long time down, not only will lose respect for each other , and sometimes lead to the other party can not stand to leave .
past Painful , when it can tell each other , there must be wisdom. Spoke too soon, the other side were you scared off . Too late , they will feel cheated . This is not certain rules. for each person The situation is different , exposure degree of not the same . When it comes to special case , it is best to consult guidance. usually Together they accept the pre-marriage counseling , it will be a good time , in a secure environment to these things all of communicate with out. Love to learn , but also need wisdom.
Whether their partners can have a secret , hidden life ?
In the husband-wife relationship , you can have some of the mystery inside. Husband and wife as two circles , and a lot of common ground. Intersection vary in over time the migration and variation . When the two under the pressure , the intersection where more. When the pressure is relatively hour or two to out to explore. Each person can have A certain percentage of a single of their own secret . But with each other trust the strengthening of , they can be more transparent , but can not be forced . Therefore , the best way is to establish a good love relationship. And transparent is this relationship the result of .
The fourth commandment : to understand the of love psychological dynamics
love Increasingly reluctant , love the fire more difficult to ignite .
ignited The fire need two important elements: to have love the fuel and oxygen.
1, of love the fuel : their own to maintain confidence in , let themselves into an interesting , attractive people.
2 , love oxygen : they need space
Love fear most is the beginning to always stick together. But after a period of time, one person into a "space suitors " , the other is the "intimate relationship Chaser . " When one intends to alienate when the Chaser will feel anxiety, feel psychosocial the love is not enough to go to attract space seekers the attention . This is a very natural phenomenon . Sometimes one chase too hard , the space the seeker will between end .
To maintain a successful love , it is necessary their own to maintain confidence in , to understand from the Department, have their own interest, each other there are considerate and respect . If the other party is not willing , will not to feel safe need , and blindly insist on the other side to meet me.
The fifth commandment : contact After , avoid self-centered , to maintain respect , do not force the other party do not want to do .
They inevitably there are differences, but on the other side to maintain respect, tolerance , kindness attitude. Do not block your lover's goals, try your best to meet his / her needs, look for win-win solution. unless the truth about , so as not to hinder each other to do what he loves to do. to work Communication and conflict resolution skills and seek a win-win approach, go and other meet his needs.
Huang Weiren love the Ten Commandments (f ): revere
To continue to maintain the mutual respect attitude of , not like many couples , as in the tokens of love , the began to disorder their own speak attitude and dress code .
Weiren love the Ten Commandments (g) : Character is more important than appearance
Spouse , the character ( loyalty , kindness, goodness ) than appearance is more important .
Young people are easily the other side of the external conditions attracted to , but in fact character , loyalty , kindness, goodness , than the appearance, how much , places more important . Marriage Can happiness, inner is the key.
Weiren love the Ten Commandments ( VIII): observe each other 's relationships
Do not just focus on the other side of their own how , but also observe each other 's relationships.
In exchange , we should continue to face up , do not by love carried away . Going to visit each other's family , to see with his parents how to get along , with his family how to get along ? relationships How do ? towards animals Attitude ? A person is not healthy relationships, with the future well-being is absolutely relevant. If only nice to you, is very real and dangerous.
When a person self-worth , self-esteem is weak , as long as people are nice , it is easy to sink into , there is no chance to see each other in the end is. So first find self-worth.
Huang Weiren love the Ten Commandments (IX ): to participate in premarital counseling
when the two discussed marriage After , looking counseling to do pre-marital to prepare .
Do psychological testing , let each other know family of origin the background of , with each other communication way of . In premarital counseling , with each other learning to communicate and see each other's differences.
For example, want to have kids ? To , when there ? Family distributed? both sides of the money Views on ? Of both parents Attitude ? To not send money home? to send How much ? If they before marriage have some consensus , then marriage can reduce many problems.
Marriage is equal to two each with an own blueprint to build a marriage house, it is a very difficult task. This is why pre-marital preparation is so important !
Huang Weiren love the Ten Commandments (x) : pre-marital anxiety
To understand some people have " pre-marital anxiety "response.
In the subconscious, obviously love each other, but on the other side there are some doubts. Many people marriage will want to explore whether the may have other options. For example, all of a sudden tell each other , said: " We are going to get married , but I always feel like the opportunity to begin with other people exchanges what , before decisions are not willing to marry you . "
This is a very common phenomenon . Then the other would panic. But please do not immediately become a chaser , desperately chase each other. In fact, this is a faith test of . Remember , love requires space when feel very anxious the time to go to counseling, to focus their growth on . Remember, a healthy self-confidence and personality maturity is attraction the source of . When the other party after a period of exploration of the process, but will willingly follow you forever. Think carefully about the only set foot on the red carpet , it's not a bad thing.
Conclusion : People not the Ten Commandments have do , but the more you do , in the future to eat bitter the less . May God bless each and every of love seeker .
of Dr. Huang Weiren current at Northwestern University School of Medicine clinical psychologist , was the students honored as "Dr. Love" ( Love Dr. ). American love Society of International Speaker . Been invited in the United States , Canada , Singapore, Malaysia, China, Hong Kong, Taiwan led to marriage, family and psychological workshops. in 2001 Malaysian government organized the first International Family Conference as the " most popular speakers . " And in October 2004 was invited the United Nations World Family Conference of keynote speaker . Dr Wong is in May 2002 should be the U.S. government invited to the White House audience with George W. Bush (Bush) president of the three Chinese leaders.
2010年9月24日星期五
Love to win everything
Years ago , in the United States Boston, the town has a名叫安比斯most blacks live . There are some people in town every morning to go to work by bus , but bus drivers have a " vice " : a white car will stop so , otherwise walk away .
A white woman named Chelsea , she is a warehouse town caretaker . In order to make the town get on the bus black , she would walk three miles every morning to the station from home , standing there and waiting for the bus with black people , she stood on top of the most visible location for public transport Drivers can see her, and all other blacks on the train , she went to guard the warehouse unit . Black town are very grateful to Chelsea as they have done .
One day, Chelsea fever, very weak , but she still insisted to the station to the station , she stood , standing on suddenly collapsed , and all the black people have come around and put Chelsea to the hospital. Soon all the people in town came to see her.
A reporter to see this moving scene , then write a story . Soon , Chelsea moved by the entire United States. One congressman suggested , use the law to protect the rights of the black car . Soon, the U.S. Congress passed a new law , the operating time, bus drivers must stop at every station , not to refuse , or to a fine of one thousand U.S. dollars , or sentenced to 10 days imprisonment .
Since then, living in An Bisi black can be successfully took the bus trip up .
In order to express respect and gratitude of Chelsea , the town decided to name the small station waiting for the bus station for Chelsea and there built a statue for the Chelsea .
Even now , every morning the statue was taken the initiative to wipe Chelsea .
A warehouse Attendant Ai Momo to contribute their own to others, such a pure heart, for those who love the bear , is unforgettable . So, when a person is respected , and was one borne in mind , you have to clear, it is not because good-looking , not because of lofty position , but because he (she ) do everything possible to give a love for others .
A white woman named Chelsea , she is a warehouse town caretaker . In order to make the town get on the bus black , she would walk three miles every morning to the station from home , standing there and waiting for the bus with black people , she stood on top of the most visible location for public transport Drivers can see her, and all other blacks on the train , she went to guard the warehouse unit . Black town are very grateful to Chelsea as they have done .
One day, Chelsea fever, very weak , but she still insisted to the station to the station , she stood , standing on suddenly collapsed , and all the black people have come around and put Chelsea to the hospital. Soon all the people in town came to see her.
A reporter to see this moving scene , then write a story . Soon , Chelsea moved by the entire United States. One congressman suggested , use the law to protect the rights of the black car . Soon, the U.S. Congress passed a new law , the operating time, bus drivers must stop at every station , not to refuse , or to a fine of one thousand U.S. dollars , or sentenced to 10 days imprisonment .
Since then, living in An Bisi black can be successfully took the bus trip up .
In order to express respect and gratitude of Chelsea , the town decided to name the small station waiting for the bus station for Chelsea and there built a statue for the Chelsea .
Even now , every morning the statue was taken the initiative to wipe Chelsea .
A warehouse Attendant Ai Momo to contribute their own to others, such a pure heart, for those who love the bear , is unforgettable . So, when a person is respected , and was one borne in mind , you have to clear, it is not because good-looking , not because of lofty position , but because he (she ) do everything possible to give a love for others .
2010年9月19日星期日
Family Troubleshooting : How do spouses before marriage infidelity problems?
What happens in a church : a Christian husband and wife wedding night , the brothers found his wife Bing , after non- virgins too difficult , and very disappointed that she did not " chaste . " So, according to the teachings of the Bible , how to handle this situation ? Husband to lift the marriage relationship, or should be tolerance and understanding?
What happens in a church : a Christian husband and wife wedding night , the brothers found his wife Bing , after non- virgins too difficult , and very disappointed that she did not " chaste . " Confess everything to his wife , Bing explained that she believed the Lord had other boyfriends before MN frequency revealed improper sexual experience before marriage . However, the main letter , she has repented Bing learned self-love , no physical crime . However , she and her husband are now contacts , I feel he is too conservative , afraid not accept her past , and he dared not say so ... ... But the paper is smoke there's fire , things were revealed, who also heard how brothers Not enter his wife 's explanation that he was deceived , but also consider themselves very conservative , willing and "non- virgin "marriage , then divorce . He said he could not stomach that she is not a virgin of this matter, but could not bear to hide her and think this will affect their life, even if reluctantly with my heart will have a pimple , do not forget as soon be over . So, according to the teachings of the Bible , how to handle this situation ? Husband to lift the marriage relationship, or should be tolerance and understanding?
Niuyuenanta Light Baptist Church Pastor , director Gu Qiwei Answer:
Dear readers , this Christian couple can become a hundred years is worth congratulating the good things He Hao . But their combination is worth discussion in detail.
First, the brothers of love overnight changed the face because of his wife's past is not a result of chastity , also shows that the conservative brethren , but too narrow thinking led him from one extreme to the other extreme , shows that he In view of the immaturity of marriage .
The second , in fact, the first from the perspective of God , the world are sinners , are contaminated with filthy world , including that of the faithful wife , have a sin against God , to offend people, sins against his own body parts , so we need to Precious Blood of Jesus Christ and the pardon covered . Even if the brothers know his wife had a bad past , she should be pardoned from the heart , because it was committed by her ignorance , not to mention God has forgiven her sins . The husband should forgive sinners from the perspective of God to love his wife .
Thirdly, the sisters , they should understand that love should start making friends Zhi You should know this. There are friends to each other early Christians , in particular, to lay before the marriage , usually in dealings with each other to explain their love of natural history and experience, the other party 's understanding and trust. Here's a confidence problem , if she bravely face this difficulty, tears of repentance , the Holy Spirit can move each other to forgive this sin .
Fourth, the brothers want to get married later withdraw from the husband and wife with divorce is to meet his good strong heart, that he is innocent, holy, this would be inappropriate. He does not understand that divorce brings a series of difficult problems , are inconceivable . Both are great for combat and scars . Brothers should think about themselves and then " holy "or with a sinful nature. Since God can pardon sinners on earth , since God has released his wife , why he could not forgive her?
Fifth, the brother of the idea is too simple rash and reckless , but also should be a change of their own personality.
In short, the couple find the best church pastor and marriage counselor for help , to understand the meaning of marriage in order to achieve mutual forgiveness , mutual forgiveness and mutual tolerance , repair loopholes in marriage , the love of Jesus Christ to forgive each other , to re-establish A satisfactory relationship of marriage .
What happens in a church : a Christian husband and wife wedding night , the brothers found his wife Bing , after non- virgins too difficult , and very disappointed that she did not " chaste . " Confess everything to his wife , Bing explained that she believed the Lord had other boyfriends before MN frequency revealed improper sexual experience before marriage . However, the main letter , she has repented Bing learned self-love , no physical crime . However , she and her husband are now contacts , I feel he is too conservative , afraid not accept her past , and he dared not say so ... ... But the paper is smoke there's fire , things were revealed, who also heard how brothers Not enter his wife 's explanation that he was deceived , but also consider themselves very conservative , willing and "non- virgin "marriage , then divorce . He said he could not stomach that she is not a virgin of this matter, but could not bear to hide her and think this will affect their life, even if reluctantly with my heart will have a pimple , do not forget as soon be over . So, according to the teachings of the Bible , how to handle this situation ? Husband to lift the marriage relationship, or should be tolerance and understanding?
Niuyuenanta Light Baptist Church Pastor , director Gu Qiwei Answer:
Dear readers , this Christian couple can become a hundred years is worth congratulating the good things He Hao . But their combination is worth discussion in detail.
First, the brothers of love overnight changed the face because of his wife's past is not a result of chastity , also shows that the conservative brethren , but too narrow thinking led him from one extreme to the other extreme , shows that he In view of the immaturity of marriage .
The second , in fact, the first from the perspective of God , the world are sinners , are contaminated with filthy world , including that of the faithful wife , have a sin against God , to offend people, sins against his own body parts , so we need to Precious Blood of Jesus Christ and the pardon covered . Even if the brothers know his wife had a bad past , she should be pardoned from the heart , because it was committed by her ignorance , not to mention God has forgiven her sins . The husband should forgive sinners from the perspective of God to love his wife .
Thirdly, the sisters , they should understand that love should start making friends Zhi You should know this. There are friends to each other early Christians , in particular, to lay before the marriage , usually in dealings with each other to explain their love of natural history and experience, the other party 's understanding and trust. Here's a confidence problem , if she bravely face this difficulty, tears of repentance , the Holy Spirit can move each other to forgive this sin .
Fourth, the brothers want to get married later withdraw from the husband and wife with divorce is to meet his good strong heart, that he is innocent, holy, this would be inappropriate. He does not understand that divorce brings a series of difficult problems , are inconceivable . Both are great for combat and scars . Brothers should think about themselves and then " holy "or with a sinful nature. Since God can pardon sinners on earth , since God has released his wife , why he could not forgive her?
Fifth, the brother of the idea is too simple rash and reckless , but also should be a change of their own personality.
In short, the couple find the best church pastor and marriage counselor for help , to understand the meaning of marriage in order to achieve mutual forgiveness , mutual forgiveness and mutual tolerance , repair loopholes in marriage , the love of Jesus Christ to forgive each other , to re-establish A satisfactory relationship of marriage .
2010年9月7日星期二
How can we not sing me ?
1860, When the United States, the outbreak of the Civil War , Laurie wrote these timeless words , stressed the need to carefully observe the body of Christ never changes , and not full of threats to the environment .
Joy of well-being disappeared , how ?
My Savior forever alive .
Gathering darkness , how ?
He has been giving new songs at night .
When I hide it a haven
No wind and rain to shake the heart stable ;
Since the Christian world power,
How can I not teach singing ?
Laurie is still deep trust in God, hard times , echoing the poem the poet 's words: " Do not rely on the king , do not rely on the world , he can not help a bit... ...God of Jacob for the help , look up to the Lord his God , that he meditates ! "( Psalm146Posts3-5Section )
Our attitude toward life will be full of confidence , or with fear , depending on where our focus . When that " the Lord will reign forever "(10Section ), how can we not sing ?DCM
If you are with Christ, and Ming , the dark you will be able to sing .
2010年9月6日星期一
Reflections of life and human nature
Lingyun today to share with everyone one from Liu's article, the name is the most delicate parts of the mind , Lingyun Liu Yung am sure this article will bring our feeling, will bring us to life and human nature Deep reflection step .
My heart always hide its three stories , each think are surprised . Because I thought he was very smart, very objective , until the experience of these stories before we find many things that only people involved in person before they can understand . It is human nature the most delicate feeling , it is difficult to determine the secular standards .
When I was teaching at St. John's University , when a colleague of mine , we had a Down's Syndrome brother , but when his wife was pregnant , actually not for amniocentesis , but also gave birth to a " Mongolian children . " News , everyone says he stupid , knowing that the possibility of a genetic spectrum is also less effect . I also wrote about this in the article, ironically, he 's stupid .
One day he said to me : "Actually my wife made to puncture , also tested positive for the spectrum is concerned, we decided to abortion . But on the morning of abortion in the appointment , my mother took my brother together . my Mongolia Syndrome brother , that what my wife got very ill , first took my wife's hand , has said: 『 Take care ! Take care ! 』 , they came , flapping at me, hugged me tightly , said : 『 brother , God will Bless you . 』 they left, I told my wife sat in silence for a long time . "
"Yes ! I blame the parents why the students have a Mongolian children , spend a lot of time on him. But I also found that , after all he is my brother , he was so in love with me, and made no secret of show it. I My wife would like , if the stomach is a like my brother for real children , we can because he is stupid , take him to kill ? He is also a life, he is God's gift ah ! Therefore, we call your doctor That we 're not going ... ... "
20 years ago , I have a TV reporter when interviewed on one occasion to go to Korea, the Asian Film Festival . Procedures for going abroad was difficult to do , not only all kinds of documents , and may request the company's personnel and units of the security letter . I finally had the documents prepared , sent an agent to the Motion Picture Association President . However, only back to the company , they received a phone call telling me stripped of one thing .
" I just put in one envelope to your ah ! "I said.
"No ! I did not see ! " the other answered categorically .
I immediately rush to the shadow Hsimenting Association office , to tell him face to face , I do own thin point , and then is packed in brown paper envelope to him.
He raised my envelope , shook it and said: "No ! "
"I honor, I installed ! "I cried .
"I honor, I did not receive ! " he bellowed back .
"You look around to see , what must fall in place ! "I shouted even louder .
" I had looked , I'm not confused , you will not give me. " he shouted louder .
Seeing an interview soon , and I angrily back to the company , went to a pass, a pass, "seeking Grandpa , Grandma told " to do the paper . In office , I suddenly received a Film , " that person " phone : "Sorry ! Mr. Liu , is not I do not care where the file in another folder , and I'm not , I really was not , I really was not one ... ... "
I Zheng Zhu , and forget how hung up the phone .
Today, I have forgotten the man 's appearance . But I do not know why, I always forget the "he" , obviously he was wrong , but I think he is great . He obviously could save their face , to find something to cover his tracks . However, he did not do so , he came to admit . I admire him and think he is a brave man .
Many years ago, I invited Chinese Ink Painting Association of the United States , as the current international ink painting exhibition full trial . The so-called " full trial "is the exhibition only by my personal assessment , selected not elected , not winning awards , won by my words .
They aim to do so , on the one hand respect for the trial , on the one hand to avoid many of the assessment " taste " odds , finally turned the " middle ground "in Entries . Please show as a different style of each of the trial , so that the works of various styles , there is always opportunity to get popular .
That review , I prepared a small sticker , first for their own " preferred " work paste , then remove it carefully .
Assessment is completed , the organizers invited me to dinner , and then pick me up from the women to send me home. Evening, while she drove the one hand, smiled and asked : " Excuse me ! Professor Lau , I do not know can not ask a question . there is no meaning , I just want to know why the photograph of a group of red rocks and painted birds , you first posted Label , and later removed the case? "
" that painting really good, but I feel a little hard strokes , places are limited , only ... ... " I smiled : "You know the artist it? "
"Know ! " She said: " I am ! "
I do not know why, my face turned red . She is the head of one of the Chinese Ink Painting Association , and from start to finish with me , she just gave me a little hint in advance , said it was her painting, I even further objective , may be affected , at least , not the last unsuccessful Her .
To this day, for ten years, I forget her . Although I can say that again , but felt she owed .
3 the story . From the secular point of view , that the professor is a fool , that the Society's President is a fool video , that lady is a moron Chinese Ink Painting Association . However, in my mind, they are the most real person. In the ordinary world , we need , not necessarily a hero , man, but that so true , real , can not be loyal to secular , There is none who bear their own conscience .
Every time I judge a person before an incident or will think of these three stories , they taught me a lot , they taught me to use " eyes "see also "heart" look . When I saw the most delicate mind , and often have 180 degree turn .
Dear listeners , this article is to give you the true meaning of life and wake up thinking it more ? Lingyun like the New Testament Gospel of Matthew ( 9:35-36 ) : Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues , and preaching the gospel of the kingdom , and healing every disease and sickness , he saw many people , the Have mercy on them because they were harassed and helpless . Because Jesus saw their struggle , their anxiety , their helplessness , their expectations . Dear friends, we can see many people every day , when you see them, you see , what else is ? Whether we could be like Jesus , we can see the emptiness of their minds , see their inner struggles , their loneliness , their pain , their despair, they help ? From their life circumstances , from their spiritual needs , we have seen our share of responsibility? When we see people around us , life needs , you will take what action to help them to become life hit many of the angels .
In this complex the world , because they are aware of some hatred, indifference, selfish thing , we learned to protect themselves , we have been hurt , Suo Yi again been hurt we fear , we close to your heart and love to become a luxury Products . Lost love, we lose the peace and joy, there is no loss of life, meaning of love , our hearts become a withered fields , without vitality , without the United States , my dear friends, let me search for the lost Love it , let us re- or in love . We can not change other people , but we can change ourselves. Let us open our hearts , open our hearts because he can make love, living water flow into our hearts. Our Lord Jesus Christ , he is the source of living water , he can use love to pour our hearts , dear brothers and sisters, today your heart ready yet? Would you like to hate your worries , pain , grief , and resentment are lifted from your heart it? Let us look to His mercy , to pray for the eternal love by Jesus . Lord ah , please use me, do you love angels , Lord , ah, help me warm this cold world.
Life we must learn the lessons , life is short , short to hate us no time to any person of life every time a fight , we must win . You may wish to agree to have different views , may wish to live harmonious with your past it, do not let it trouble your life now . Do not take your life and others more , you do not know what their lives will change . Blink of an eye , what will change, but do not worry, our God will not nap , the useless , ugly are all forget all that can not be sure who killed your life will become stronger.
Once again the joy of childhood is never too late , but the second can only rely on their own can not rely on others, candle , with the best sheets , wear the best pajamas , do not wait until the best occasions to use , in fact, Today is the best day. Fully prepared , then let it run into bad luck , say five years , will this matter? Forgive everyone everything , you might have a happy life together , how others think of your business , time can heal any wounds. But to give time to time , a miracle occurs .
God loves you because he is God , not because of anything you did or did not do , do not always recall life, now go show it, and play around , now go out , the miracle is waiting for you . If we put the piled together, watching the others , we'll own to grab ours back.
Jealousy is a waste of time , because you already have everything you need , no matter how you feel , get up , dressed , good performance of yourself . If you do not request, you must vain . Life has not been tied bow, but it is still a gift .
Paul in the Bible Philippians ( 4:10-13 ) : I trust in the Lord greatly rejoice , because you care for me now has occurred; you always take thought for me , but did not get the opportunity . But I will not say them in any situation can be content with what I have learned . I know how to lowly office , but also know how to have wealth , or satiety , or relieve their hunger , or more than , or lack of , with the matter as in , I have learned the secret . I trust in him who gives me strength , and all can be . Yes, we through him who gives us the power of God .
My heart always hide its three stories , each think are surprised . Because I thought he was very smart, very objective , until the experience of these stories before we find many things that only people involved in person before they can understand . It is human nature the most delicate feeling , it is difficult to determine the secular standards .
When I was teaching at St. John's University , when a colleague of mine , we had a Down's Syndrome brother , but when his wife was pregnant , actually not for amniocentesis , but also gave birth to a " Mongolian children . " News , everyone says he stupid , knowing that the possibility of a genetic spectrum is also less effect . I also wrote about this in the article, ironically, he 's stupid .
One day he said to me : "Actually my wife made to puncture , also tested positive for the spectrum is concerned, we decided to abortion . But on the morning of abortion in the appointment , my mother took my brother together . my Mongolia Syndrome brother , that what my wife got very ill , first took my wife's hand , has said: 『 Take care ! Take care ! 』 , they came , flapping at me, hugged me tightly , said : 『 brother , God will Bless you . 』 they left, I told my wife sat in silence for a long time . "
"Yes ! I blame the parents why the students have a Mongolian children , spend a lot of time on him. But I also found that , after all he is my brother , he was so in love with me, and made no secret of show it. I My wife would like , if the stomach is a like my brother for real children , we can because he is stupid , take him to kill ? He is also a life, he is God's gift ah ! Therefore, we call your doctor That we 're not going ... ... "
20 years ago , I have a TV reporter when interviewed on one occasion to go to Korea, the Asian Film Festival . Procedures for going abroad was difficult to do , not only all kinds of documents , and may request the company's personnel and units of the security letter . I finally had the documents prepared , sent an agent to the Motion Picture Association President . However, only back to the company , they received a phone call telling me stripped of one thing .
" I just put in one envelope to your ah ! "I said.
"No ! I did not see ! " the other answered categorically .
I immediately rush to the shadow Hsimenting Association office , to tell him face to face , I do own thin point , and then is packed in brown paper envelope to him.
He raised my envelope , shook it and said: "No ! "
"I honor, I installed ! "I cried .
"I honor, I did not receive ! " he bellowed back .
"You look around to see , what must fall in place ! "I shouted even louder .
" I had looked , I'm not confused , you will not give me. " he shouted louder .
Seeing an interview soon , and I angrily back to the company , went to a pass, a pass, "seeking Grandpa , Grandma told " to do the paper . In office , I suddenly received a Film , " that person " phone : "Sorry ! Mr. Liu , is not I do not care where the file in another folder , and I'm not , I really was not , I really was not one ... ... "
I Zheng Zhu , and forget how hung up the phone .
Today, I have forgotten the man 's appearance . But I do not know why, I always forget the "he" , obviously he was wrong , but I think he is great . He obviously could save their face , to find something to cover his tracks . However, he did not do so , he came to admit . I admire him and think he is a brave man .
Many years ago, I invited Chinese Ink Painting Association of the United States , as the current international ink painting exhibition full trial . The so-called " full trial "is the exhibition only by my personal assessment , selected not elected , not winning awards , won by my words .
They aim to do so , on the one hand respect for the trial , on the one hand to avoid many of the assessment " taste " odds , finally turned the " middle ground "in Entries . Please show as a different style of each of the trial , so that the works of various styles , there is always opportunity to get popular .
That review , I prepared a small sticker , first for their own " preferred " work paste , then remove it carefully .
Assessment is completed , the organizers invited me to dinner , and then pick me up from the women to send me home. Evening, while she drove the one hand, smiled and asked : " Excuse me ! Professor Lau , I do not know can not ask a question . there is no meaning , I just want to know why the photograph of a group of red rocks and painted birds , you first posted Label , and later removed the case? "
" that painting really good, but I feel a little hard strokes , places are limited , only ... ... " I smiled : "You know the artist it? "
"Know ! " She said: " I am ! "
I do not know why, my face turned red . She is the head of one of the Chinese Ink Painting Association , and from start to finish with me , she just gave me a little hint in advance , said it was her painting, I even further objective , may be affected , at least , not the last unsuccessful Her .
To this day, for ten years, I forget her . Although I can say that again , but felt she owed .
3 the story . From the secular point of view , that the professor is a fool , that the Society's President is a fool video , that lady is a moron Chinese Ink Painting Association . However, in my mind, they are the most real person. In the ordinary world , we need , not necessarily a hero , man, but that so true , real , can not be loyal to secular , There is none who bear their own conscience .
Every time I judge a person before an incident or will think of these three stories , they taught me a lot , they taught me to use " eyes "see also "heart" look . When I saw the most delicate mind , and often have 180 degree turn .
Dear listeners , this article is to give you the true meaning of life and wake up thinking it more ? Lingyun like the New Testament Gospel of Matthew ( 9:35-36 ) : Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues , and preaching the gospel of the kingdom , and healing every disease and sickness , he saw many people , the Have mercy on them because they were harassed and helpless . Because Jesus saw their struggle , their anxiety , their helplessness , their expectations . Dear friends, we can see many people every day , when you see them, you see , what else is ? Whether we could be like Jesus , we can see the emptiness of their minds , see their inner struggles , their loneliness , their pain , their despair, they help ? From their life circumstances , from their spiritual needs , we have seen our share of responsibility? When we see people around us , life needs , you will take what action to help them to become life hit many of the angels .
In this complex the world , because they are aware of some hatred, indifference, selfish thing , we learned to protect themselves , we have been hurt , Suo Yi again been hurt we fear , we close to your heart and love to become a luxury Products . Lost love, we lose the peace and joy, there is no loss of life, meaning of love , our hearts become a withered fields , without vitality , without the United States , my dear friends, let me search for the lost Love it , let us re- or in love . We can not change other people , but we can change ourselves. Let us open our hearts , open our hearts because he can make love, living water flow into our hearts. Our Lord Jesus Christ , he is the source of living water , he can use love to pour our hearts , dear brothers and sisters, today your heart ready yet? Would you like to hate your worries , pain , grief , and resentment are lifted from your heart it? Let us look to His mercy , to pray for the eternal love by Jesus . Lord ah , please use me, do you love angels , Lord , ah, help me warm this cold world.
Life we must learn the lessons , life is short , short to hate us no time to any person of life every time a fight , we must win . You may wish to agree to have different views , may wish to live harmonious with your past it, do not let it trouble your life now . Do not take your life and others more , you do not know what their lives will change . Blink of an eye , what will change, but do not worry, our God will not nap , the useless , ugly are all forget all that can not be sure who killed your life will become stronger.
Once again the joy of childhood is never too late , but the second can only rely on their own can not rely on others, candle , with the best sheets , wear the best pajamas , do not wait until the best occasions to use , in fact, Today is the best day. Fully prepared , then let it run into bad luck , say five years , will this matter? Forgive everyone everything , you might have a happy life together , how others think of your business , time can heal any wounds. But to give time to time , a miracle occurs .
God loves you because he is God , not because of anything you did or did not do , do not always recall life, now go show it, and play around , now go out , the miracle is waiting for you . If we put the piled together, watching the others , we'll own to grab ours back.
Jealousy is a waste of time , because you already have everything you need , no matter how you feel , get up , dressed , good performance of yourself . If you do not request, you must vain . Life has not been tied bow, but it is still a gift .
Paul in the Bible Philippians ( 4:10-13 ) : I trust in the Lord greatly rejoice , because you care for me now has occurred; you always take thought for me , but did not get the opportunity . But I will not say them in any situation can be content with what I have learned . I know how to lowly office , but also know how to have wealth , or satiety , or relieve their hunger , or more than , or lack of , with the matter as in , I have learned the secret . I trust in him who gives me strength , and all can be . Yes, we through him who gives us the power of God .
2010年9月1日星期三
I finally darling
Then four years , I was busy when the high school English teacher and raising four children , had never thought of remarriage . Whether single or married, I have been very satisfied and confident that if God wanted me to remarry , I certainly do not need to charge Chuihuizhili , will the husband sent to me. So if I have the opportunity to prepare for remarriage , listing the conditions for the future husband .
I look forward to the future husband has the following qualities : First of all, is a committed Christian , able to make my children's spiritual leader; Secondly, my four children to accept him and love him.
Third, he must love my kids , understand them and get along with them . Fourth, he also has a global vision , like travel to other countries , like the International Student Services ( My job is to care at the local university for international students ) . Also, his financial should be stable, need not be very rich, but enough to feed my children.
One day, her daughter home from school , encouraged me to meet her friend 's father. He is a widower , looking very lonely. Although I am not very interested , but one daughter and her friends to join the basketball game , he came late , when only my side is available. He explained to me all night for the match . The next week , he called me , about my dinner started from our love relationship .
Marvin turned out I found all the conditions and quality : he is a committed Christian ; he is a retired Army colonel , has been traveling around the world , and love the international students; my kids immediately fell in love with him. Twenty years later he died, his eldest son to mourn his funeral , said Marvin the lives of their brothers and sisters have a profound impact . He also quite good in the financial , much better than me .
Marvin is fully consistent with my perfect husband, the ideal conditions , only one exception . I forgot implicit in the conditions , some number of children he can ! First date , he told me that he had nine children , and five of them are teenagers and live in the home , the two add up to a total of nine young people !
I look forward to the future husband has the following qualities : First of all, is a committed Christian , able to make my children's spiritual leader; Secondly, my four children to accept him and love him.
Third, he must love my kids , understand them and get along with them . Fourth, he also has a global vision , like travel to other countries , like the International Student Services ( My job is to care at the local university for international students ) . Also, his financial should be stable, need not be very rich, but enough to feed my children.
One day, her daughter home from school , encouraged me to meet her friend 's father. He is a widower , looking very lonely. Although I am not very interested , but one daughter and her friends to join the basketball game , he came late , when only my side is available. He explained to me all night for the match . The next week , he called me , about my dinner started from our love relationship .
Marvin turned out I found all the conditions and quality : he is a committed Christian ; he is a retired Army colonel , has been traveling around the world , and love the international students; my kids immediately fell in love with him. Twenty years later he died, his eldest son to mourn his funeral , said Marvin the lives of their brothers and sisters have a profound impact . He also quite good in the financial , much better than me .
Marvin is fully consistent with my perfect husband, the ideal conditions , only one exception . I forgot implicit in the conditions , some number of children he can ! First date , he told me that he had nine children , and five of them are teenagers and live in the home , the two add up to a total of nine young people !
2010年8月31日星期二
Christian Husband - How To Attract Him Quicker And Make Him Beg You For Marriage Fast! (2)
Christian Husbands Want Good Report
I wish all the single Christian women would come to realize that attracting a charming Christian husband is not really as hard as it seems. In the last edition of this series I explained how dedication with excitement will help to announce you to him effortlessly. Today, I'm going to fulfill my promise to show you a powerful secret that will turn you into a fascinating angel, so your potential Christian husband will never judge you by your past!
Good report is what happens when other people begin to say nice things about you when you're not there. Sisters with good reports are the delights of every potential Christian husband. It's not hard to notice all emotionally secure brothers each wishing to be the privileged husband of a respectable sister. But the challenge is that many sisters are either new in their local churches or they think that they have such a terrible past and therefore must hide from everyone. In both situations, they are totally unknown in their church communities, and so they are without any reports.
It makes things easier for him...
Good report plays a very important role in captivating the attention of potential Christian husbands for many reasons. First the brother that announces his intention to marry an honorable sister won't have a hard time convincing others about the soundness of his wisdom. And with that kind of unanimous approval comes a feeling of well being that gives him a higher self-esteem - an exceptionally vital state of mind for becoming an exceptional companion.
It gives you angelic status...
Secondly, good report mysteriously makes you familiar to him and automatically eliminates most, if not all the prejudices and suspicions that would have been handy if he hasn't already heard lots of good things about you.
It's not that hard...
Good report doesn't have to come from your past. If you really get down to it, you can work out a sound positive image for yourself no matter where you are presently or what your past was like. In fact that's what dedication with excitement is designed to help you achieve right away.
You can create it...
All it takes to have a good report is a tireless and enthusiastic commitment to selfless services. Always pay attention to your thoughts and actions both within and outside the church. Make yourself known for reliability and integrity, and guard your new reputation with all you've got. Mind the type of friends you keep. Beware of hypocrisy and self-promotion. Before you know it, you'll hook up with the right Christian husband. I assure you of that!
I wish all the single Christian women would come to realize that attracting a charming Christian husband is not really as hard as it seems. In the last edition of this series I explained how dedication with excitement will help to announce you to him effortlessly. Today, I'm going to fulfill my promise to show you a powerful secret that will turn you into a fascinating angel, so your potential Christian husband will never judge you by your past!
Good report is what happens when other people begin to say nice things about you when you're not there. Sisters with good reports are the delights of every potential Christian husband. It's not hard to notice all emotionally secure brothers each wishing to be the privileged husband of a respectable sister. But the challenge is that many sisters are either new in their local churches or they think that they have such a terrible past and therefore must hide from everyone. In both situations, they are totally unknown in their church communities, and so they are without any reports.
It makes things easier for him...
Good report plays a very important role in captivating the attention of potential Christian husbands for many reasons. First the brother that announces his intention to marry an honorable sister won't have a hard time convincing others about the soundness of his wisdom. And with that kind of unanimous approval comes a feeling of well being that gives him a higher self-esteem - an exceptionally vital state of mind for becoming an exceptional companion.
It gives you angelic status...
Secondly, good report mysteriously makes you familiar to him and automatically eliminates most, if not all the prejudices and suspicions that would have been handy if he hasn't already heard lots of good things about you.
It's not that hard...
Good report doesn't have to come from your past. If you really get down to it, you can work out a sound positive image for yourself no matter where you are presently or what your past was like. In fact that's what dedication with excitement is designed to help you achieve right away.
You can create it...
All it takes to have a good report is a tireless and enthusiastic commitment to selfless services. Always pay attention to your thoughts and actions both within and outside the church. Make yourself known for reliability and integrity, and guard your new reputation with all you've got. Mind the type of friends you keep. Beware of hypocrisy and self-promotion. Before you know it, you'll hook up with the right Christian husband. I assure you of that!
Christian Husband - How To Attract Him Quicker And Make Him Beg You For Marriage Fast! (3)
Christian Husbands Love Zero Pride
I understand that we all need to show a good measure of confidence and high self esteem always. The only problem is that these good traits seem are often taken to the other extreme by many single Christian women. And that explains why many find it hard to attract the correct potential Christian husband.
If I'm to put it straight, then know that to gain his friendship you would need an attitude of...
Zero pride means being approachable to everyone. This is particularly crucial in church, if you ever want to attract a good Christian husband. Our Father - the almighty God whose core nature is love - doesn't see anything wrong in opposing the proud (James 4:6 RSV). Though many sons of God may find it hard to oppose pride like our Father does, but they certainly find it easy to run away from it.
You're like a super star...
You see, once you've got yourself a fair deal of good report circulating, your public image (at least within your local church community) will go up. Now that's really a very good development. But what you may not know is that your magnified status will give even the most confident brother a few strokes of self-doubt when he thinks of approaching you for a relationship. Many of them will rather send you emissaries than approach you personally. And worse still a large number of them (including those you really want) may hang around you for long and never muster enough guts to make their good intentions known to you.
They are scared of approaching you...
The only way to avoid this bottleneck situation is to make sincere humility a sizable part of your good report mix. And always make sure it's clearly noticed from a distance.
A sure way to make that happen fast is to practice the art of laughing out loud and heartily without appearing like a freak! It's true that our emotionally insecure society teaches us that to preserve our perceived dignity we must suppress our emotions. But you have to break that rule when you interact with people, especially those in your service group. Doing so will give you a vivid aura of innocence and simplicity. And everyone wants to be friends with a merry innocent girl!
Make them feel accepted...
In final analysis, humility is essentially about acknowledging your humanity. It's just about constantly reminding yourself that you can sure always be better than you are, but never better than anyone else. If you keep thinking like this always, you'll naturally become approachable to everyone. And that's just the only way to keep potential Christian husbands from running away from you!
I understand that we all need to show a good measure of confidence and high self esteem always. The only problem is that these good traits seem are often taken to the other extreme by many single Christian women. And that explains why many find it hard to attract the correct potential Christian husband.
If I'm to put it straight, then know that to gain his friendship you would need an attitude of...
Zero pride means being approachable to everyone. This is particularly crucial in church, if you ever want to attract a good Christian husband. Our Father - the almighty God whose core nature is love - doesn't see anything wrong in opposing the proud (James 4:6 RSV). Though many sons of God may find it hard to oppose pride like our Father does, but they certainly find it easy to run away from it.
You're like a super star...
You see, once you've got yourself a fair deal of good report circulating, your public image (at least within your local church community) will go up. Now that's really a very good development. But what you may not know is that your magnified status will give even the most confident brother a few strokes of self-doubt when he thinks of approaching you for a relationship. Many of them will rather send you emissaries than approach you personally. And worse still a large number of them (including those you really want) may hang around you for long and never muster enough guts to make their good intentions known to you.
They are scared of approaching you...
The only way to avoid this bottleneck situation is to make sincere humility a sizable part of your good report mix. And always make sure it's clearly noticed from a distance.
A sure way to make that happen fast is to practice the art of laughing out loud and heartily without appearing like a freak! It's true that our emotionally insecure society teaches us that to preserve our perceived dignity we must suppress our emotions. But you have to break that rule when you interact with people, especially those in your service group. Doing so will give you a vivid aura of innocence and simplicity. And everyone wants to be friends with a merry innocent girl!
Make them feel accepted...
In final analysis, humility is essentially about acknowledging your humanity. It's just about constantly reminding yourself that you can sure always be better than you are, but never better than anyone else. If you keep thinking like this always, you'll naturally become approachable to everyone. And that's just the only way to keep potential Christian husbands from running away from you!
Christian Husband - How To Attract Him Quicker And Make Him Beg You For Marriage Fast! (4)
The Habit of Receiving Heartily Without Suspicion
Want a Christian husband? Then learn to be more receptive. We have plenty of givers all around us. In fact giving and sharing seem to have become the most prominent foundational principles of the Christian faith. Everyone wants to 'out-give' the other. But rarely do you come across someone who truly knows how to receive.
It's most crucial...
Unfortunately, when it comes down to attracting the right Christian husband, knowing how to receive heartily without suspicion is the most crucial skill you'll ever need. To start with, men are naturally designed to give; while in complement, women are configured to receive.
Else he won't stay...
If you're always 'dedicated with excitement' in even the least assignments, he will notice you; if you have a 'good report,' he will find you fascinating; if you truly have a 'zero pride' lifestyle, he will be excited and bold enough to approach you; but unless you know how to receive him, (and from him) with joy and in good faith, he will hardly stay with you let alone proposing to you!
It's no big deal...
When he gives you a tiny complement by telling you how nice he thinks your hairstyle is, don't try to explain how cheaply put together the hairstyle really was, don't try to wonder whether he's flattering you, and don't even try to return the gesture. Just receive it with genuine gratitude and let it show.
Never take him for granted...
When he gives you a little honour by opening the door for you, he wants you to smile, wink, or genuinely pat him on the back just to let him know you've honestly received and appreciated his gift. Don't just be indifferent and act as though he's under some obligations to honour you. And by the way, how did you react the last time a strange brother suddenly smiled at you? Do you know if he's your link to your preferred Christian husband! In the next edition, I'll show you the final secret that will fire up your potential Christian husband and fast track your journey to the alter!
Want a Christian husband? Then learn to be more receptive. We have plenty of givers all around us. In fact giving and sharing seem to have become the most prominent foundational principles of the Christian faith. Everyone wants to 'out-give' the other. But rarely do you come across someone who truly knows how to receive.
It's most crucial...
Unfortunately, when it comes down to attracting the right Christian husband, knowing how to receive heartily without suspicion is the most crucial skill you'll ever need. To start with, men are naturally designed to give; while in complement, women are configured to receive.
Else he won't stay...
If you're always 'dedicated with excitement' in even the least assignments, he will notice you; if you have a 'good report,' he will find you fascinating; if you truly have a 'zero pride' lifestyle, he will be excited and bold enough to approach you; but unless you know how to receive him, (and from him) with joy and in good faith, he will hardly stay with you let alone proposing to you!
It's no big deal...
When he gives you a tiny complement by telling you how nice he thinks your hairstyle is, don't try to explain how cheaply put together the hairstyle really was, don't try to wonder whether he's flattering you, and don't even try to return the gesture. Just receive it with genuine gratitude and let it show.
Never take him for granted...
When he gives you a little honour by opening the door for you, he wants you to smile, wink, or genuinely pat him on the back just to let him know you've honestly received and appreciated his gift. Don't just be indifferent and act as though he's under some obligations to honour you. And by the way, how did you react the last time a strange brother suddenly smiled at you? Do you know if he's your link to your preferred Christian husband! In the next edition, I'll show you the final secret that will fire up your potential Christian husband and fast track your journey to the alter!
Christian Husband - How To Attract Him Quicker And Make Him Beg You For Marriage Fast! (5)
Calculated, Holy, and Mild Flirting
At times your prospective Christian husband may not be bold enough to propose to you unless you encourage him with a mild flirting. If you have succeeded in making yourself a model of the first four qualities (Dedication with excitement, Good report, Zero pride, and Habit of receiving heartily without suspicion), chances are so high that you won't have the need to flirt because lots of godly men would have been running over themselves to win your affection by this time.
Stir him up...
But in case the particular man you've perceived by your spirit to be your husband is not fast enough to approach you with a definite marriage proposal, you may have to come out of your shell, and do some flirting.
Entice him with caution...
I'm NOT talking about flirting with your body or acting loose. I'm talking about making him see that you're deeply and genuinely interested in him. Two of the easiest ways to achieve that without appearing cheap or desperate are:
By cheerfully giving him your undivided attention whenever he calls on you - even if the call was just for less than a minute.
By making a habit of going to stay with him (confidently but uninvited) during suitable church activities and other public functions.
Know when to be the pursued...
You must be wise and highly sensitive when applying the second option. Even when everything appears as though you've really become friends, you still have to be sensitive enough to know when to slow down and let him be the man (that's do the chasing).
Every man needs to pursue his woman to 'win her hand' in marriage - your desired Christian husband is not different. He will feel like a hero if you would (tactfully) lead him to pursue you and then let him capture you after some time. But never allow your flirting to be too obvious or irritating. Be sensitive.
At times your prospective Christian husband may not be bold enough to propose to you unless you encourage him with a mild flirting. If you have succeeded in making yourself a model of the first four qualities (Dedication with excitement, Good report, Zero pride, and Habit of receiving heartily without suspicion), chances are so high that you won't have the need to flirt because lots of godly men would have been running over themselves to win your affection by this time.
Stir him up...
But in case the particular man you've perceived by your spirit to be your husband is not fast enough to approach you with a definite marriage proposal, you may have to come out of your shell, and do some flirting.
Entice him with caution...
I'm NOT talking about flirting with your body or acting loose. I'm talking about making him see that you're deeply and genuinely interested in him. Two of the easiest ways to achieve that without appearing cheap or desperate are:
By cheerfully giving him your undivided attention whenever he calls on you - even if the call was just for less than a minute.
By making a habit of going to stay with him (confidently but uninvited) during suitable church activities and other public functions.
Know when to be the pursued...
You must be wise and highly sensitive when applying the second option. Even when everything appears as though you've really become friends, you still have to be sensitive enough to know when to slow down and let him be the man (that's do the chasing).
Every man needs to pursue his woman to 'win her hand' in marriage - your desired Christian husband is not different. He will feel like a hero if you would (tactfully) lead him to pursue you and then let him capture you after some time. But never allow your flirting to be too obvious or irritating. Be sensitive.
Understanding the Benefits of Prenatal Yoga
There are many benefits of prenatal yoga. These benefits will be felt by both the expectant mother and the unborn babe. As a soothing and relaxing exercise, yoga has long been known to treat the body in a gentle manner. There is no harsh bouncing here. Nor is there any urging to feel the burn in order to work to the next level. In fact, yoga is one of the few forms of exercise that is so flexible that its use has been adapted by a number of seemingly unrelated sports such as football and hockey.
For a mother and her unborn baby, however, the benefits of prenatal yoga mean that the mother's body is engaged in gentle stretching exercises. These exercises are designed to lengthen key sets of muscles that will be particularly needed during labor and birth. In turn, these elongated and stronger muscles help to ensure a smoother journey for the baby as it makes its entrance into the world.
Because the fact that there is no bouncing involved is one of the benefits of yoga, there is a much less likelihood that injury will occur to the mother's body. Yoga's gentle encouragement of stretches that are natural and flow with the body increase the feelings of relaxation and satisfaction. Yoga can be fully adaptable for all women regardless of the stage of pregnancy she is at. Each woman is encouraged to work only to a gentle stretch and not too push herself too hard. In addition, there are some poses that must be modified when practicing prenatal yoga so that key blood vessels or other necessary body parts are not compromised.
Clearly the benefits of prenatal yoga make it a superb choice of exercise for all prenatal women, regardless of their fitness level or weight. In fact, for women who are out of shape or overweight, practicing yoga while pregnant can make a huge difference in their comfort level while pregnant as well as their labor and recovery time after giving birth. For a gentle yet very effective exercise for almost any woman in any stage of pregnancy, prenatal yoga is a natural choice.
For a mother and her unborn baby, however, the benefits of prenatal yoga mean that the mother's body is engaged in gentle stretching exercises. These exercises are designed to lengthen key sets of muscles that will be particularly needed during labor and birth. In turn, these elongated and stronger muscles help to ensure a smoother journey for the baby as it makes its entrance into the world.
Because the fact that there is no bouncing involved is one of the benefits of yoga, there is a much less likelihood that injury will occur to the mother's body. Yoga's gentle encouragement of stretches that are natural and flow with the body increase the feelings of relaxation and satisfaction. Yoga can be fully adaptable for all women regardless of the stage of pregnancy she is at. Each woman is encouraged to work only to a gentle stretch and not too push herself too hard. In addition, there are some poses that must be modified when practicing prenatal yoga so that key blood vessels or other necessary body parts are not compromised.
Clearly the benefits of prenatal yoga make it a superb choice of exercise for all prenatal women, regardless of their fitness level or weight. In fact, for women who are out of shape or overweight, practicing yoga while pregnant can make a huge difference in their comfort level while pregnant as well as their labor and recovery time after giving birth. For a gentle yet very effective exercise for almost any woman in any stage of pregnancy, prenatal yoga is a natural choice.
If You Make Contact Now, You Will Likely Blow Any Chance of Getting Your Ex Back - Find Out Why!
You might be getting told by your friends and family that you should make contact with your ex as soon as possible if you want to get your ex back. Please don't listen to them - this is honestly the worst advice that you can get right now, and you would be really stupid to follow it.
The last time that you and your ex were in contact was really ugly, wasn't it? You were having a really awful argument, and had absolutely nothing nice to say about each other. When you parted company, you swore that you were never going to talk to your ex again. You were absolutely furious with him/her, and were so happy to end the argument abruptly by walking out. At that time, there wasn't the remotest thought in your mind to try and get your ex back.
You just couldn't stand it anymore! You were shaking from head to toe you were so angry and upset, and loving your ex was the very last thing on your mind. This happened how many days ago? Isn't it true that you are just as angry with your ex right now as you were when you walked out? There is still probably nothing nice that you want to say to your ex yet, is there?
Well, the same applies to your ex. He/she is also really fed-up with you, and is still hurting by the things that you said to him/her. Also, you probably wouldn't like to hear what your ex has to say to you yet, so soon after the break up.
This is the very reason why you are being advised to NOT make any contact with your ex just yet. It is too soon after your break up, and there is absolutely no way that you will be able to be in the same room together, let alone have a reasonable conversation.
However, should you and your ex take some time to get over the break up, the argument, and the emotions that are causing you to be so angry right now, then you will have a much better chance of getting together peacefully to talk things over. Then, and only then, will you have a chance to try and get your ex back into your life again, and maybe succeed.
The last time that you and your ex were in contact was really ugly, wasn't it? You were having a really awful argument, and had absolutely nothing nice to say about each other. When you parted company, you swore that you were never going to talk to your ex again. You were absolutely furious with him/her, and were so happy to end the argument abruptly by walking out. At that time, there wasn't the remotest thought in your mind to try and get your ex back.
You just couldn't stand it anymore! You were shaking from head to toe you were so angry and upset, and loving your ex was the very last thing on your mind. This happened how many days ago? Isn't it true that you are just as angry with your ex right now as you were when you walked out? There is still probably nothing nice that you want to say to your ex yet, is there?
Well, the same applies to your ex. He/she is also really fed-up with you, and is still hurting by the things that you said to him/her. Also, you probably wouldn't like to hear what your ex has to say to you yet, so soon after the break up.
This is the very reason why you are being advised to NOT make any contact with your ex just yet. It is too soon after your break up, and there is absolutely no way that you will be able to be in the same room together, let alone have a reasonable conversation.
However, should you and your ex take some time to get over the break up, the argument, and the emotions that are causing you to be so angry right now, then you will have a much better chance of getting together peacefully to talk things over. Then, and only then, will you have a chance to try and get your ex back into your life again, and maybe succeed.
The Break Up Was Messy! Do You Really Want to Get Him Back in Your Life?
Your relationship had its ups and downs - more downs than ups though, until it came to a head and you broke up. There were many little arguments, almost daily in fact, but you always seemed to be able to fix them. Now, though, you had a really huge argument, and the relationship ended. Now you want to know how to get him back in your life.
If most of those little arguments that you had during your relationship were started by your ex, then he was obviously a controlling person. It sounds as if he wanted things his way, and if you didn't conform, then he would complain about it. Unless of course, it was little annoying things that you were doing or saying that caused the arguments.
These are all the things that you need to think about and analyze before making the decision to get him back in your life. If you and your ex were constantly clashing because of things that you were doing, then you need to think carefully about these things and how you are going to fix them.
If you love your ex and would like to get back together again, then you are going to have to be willing to change your ways and your attitude as well. It will be difficult, but if it means having a chance to get him back in your life, then it will be worth all the effort you put into it.
However, if most of the tiffs you had were caused by your ex not being happy because you were not doing something to his liking, then you might have an even more difficult decision to make. He is a controlling person who wants his own way most of the time and you need to decide whether you will be happy to be in this type of relationship or not.
In short, before you try to get him back in your life, you need to decide whether you love him enough to be willing to be his doormat again. In other words, you will be dancing to his tune all the time, and you will be getting back into a one-sided relationship again - is it really worth it?
Whether you are still together and having problems or you are already seperated and want to save your relationship... the next step is absolutely crucial!
Don't make the mistake of saying or doing something that will kill your chances of getting back together with your boyfriend. Find out what you need to do to save your relationship and emotionally reconnect with him again.
If most of those little arguments that you had during your relationship were started by your ex, then he was obviously a controlling person. It sounds as if he wanted things his way, and if you didn't conform, then he would complain about it. Unless of course, it was little annoying things that you were doing or saying that caused the arguments.
These are all the things that you need to think about and analyze before making the decision to get him back in your life. If you and your ex were constantly clashing because of things that you were doing, then you need to think carefully about these things and how you are going to fix them.
If you love your ex and would like to get back together again, then you are going to have to be willing to change your ways and your attitude as well. It will be difficult, but if it means having a chance to get him back in your life, then it will be worth all the effort you put into it.
However, if most of the tiffs you had were caused by your ex not being happy because you were not doing something to his liking, then you might have an even more difficult decision to make. He is a controlling person who wants his own way most of the time and you need to decide whether you will be happy to be in this type of relationship or not.
In short, before you try to get him back in your life, you need to decide whether you love him enough to be willing to be his doormat again. In other words, you will be dancing to his tune all the time, and you will be getting back into a one-sided relationship again - is it really worth it?
Whether you are still together and having problems or you are already seperated and want to save your relationship... the next step is absolutely crucial!
Don't make the mistake of saying or doing something that will kill your chances of getting back together with your boyfriend. Find out what you need to do to save your relationship and emotionally reconnect with him again.
2010年8月26日星期四
Anti Aging Face Cream - Tips
As we age, there is a change in the characteristics and ultimately the appearance of our skin. To make matters worse our daily routine accelerates this process. In order to seek the correct anti aging formula and more specifically the correct anti aging face cream one needs to understand what causes skin aging, what personal habits are accelerating this process, and what is missing in its nourishment.
The younger you are when you start caring for your skin the better for you!
Among the first and most visible sign of aging are the changes we notice to our skin that includes wrinkles and sagging skin. In an attempt to re-vitalise our skin, to get rid of those fine lines under our eyes and around our face and to look younger we all seek the correct anti aging face cream or more generally an a formula that actually works in retarding the ageing process.
There a various type of aging processes and causes of accelerated aging such as damage caused by ultraviolet radiation which damages the surface and middle layers of the skin and infra-red A radiation which damages the deeper layers (dermis / subcutaneous tissue). All these factors need to be taken into account when shopping around for an anti aging face cream. Another factor causing pre-mature aging of the skin, among other serious diseases, is long term smoking.
The rays of the sun are also responsible for causing damage such as fine lines and wrinkles, commonly know as Photoaging. The surface layers of the skin loose their ability to retain moisture and dry out causing the skin to easily blister and tear. With prolonged exposure the deeper layers (dermis) weakens and looses elasticity. Regular use of the correct anti aging face cream will not only prevent damage to the skin by may even reverse it.
To prevent accelerated aging of the skin or repair damage to the skin and for the implementation of a correct skin care program one needs to look at the total picture involving ones habits, nutrition and finally using skin protection such as sun screens moisturisers and treatments that rejuvenate skin. Skin changes are generally related to environmental factors, genetic makeup and nutrition. So its not all about buying the most expensive anti aging face cream and plastering it on every day of the year or walking around endless hours of the day with face masks or half the green grocer on your face. It's about understanding your problem and finding the correct solution.
So before you just rush out or rush on-line to buy an anti aging face cream take a minute and find out what it is you're looking for and what will help you.
The younger you are when you start caring for your skin the better for you!
Among the first and most visible sign of aging are the changes we notice to our skin that includes wrinkles and sagging skin. In an attempt to re-vitalise our skin, to get rid of those fine lines under our eyes and around our face and to look younger we all seek the correct anti aging face cream or more generally an a formula that actually works in retarding the ageing process.
There a various type of aging processes and causes of accelerated aging such as damage caused by ultraviolet radiation which damages the surface and middle layers of the skin and infra-red A radiation which damages the deeper layers (dermis / subcutaneous tissue). All these factors need to be taken into account when shopping around for an anti aging face cream. Another factor causing pre-mature aging of the skin, among other serious diseases, is long term smoking.
The rays of the sun are also responsible for causing damage such as fine lines and wrinkles, commonly know as Photoaging. The surface layers of the skin loose their ability to retain moisture and dry out causing the skin to easily blister and tear. With prolonged exposure the deeper layers (dermis) weakens and looses elasticity. Regular use of the correct anti aging face cream will not only prevent damage to the skin by may even reverse it.
To prevent accelerated aging of the skin or repair damage to the skin and for the implementation of a correct skin care program one needs to look at the total picture involving ones habits, nutrition and finally using skin protection such as sun screens moisturisers and treatments that rejuvenate skin. Skin changes are generally related to environmental factors, genetic makeup and nutrition. So its not all about buying the most expensive anti aging face cream and plastering it on every day of the year or walking around endless hours of the day with face masks or half the green grocer on your face. It's about understanding your problem and finding the correct solution.
So before you just rush out or rush on-line to buy an anti aging face cream take a minute and find out what it is you're looking for and what will help you.
Discover the Best Perfume For Your Skin Or Body Type
Of late, perfumes have become something very vital in people's live. For anyone to enjoy a day, a fragrance must be worn to feel confident and comfortable. Unfortunately people have different tastes about the kind of perfume they want for instance, there is spicy, floral and others may prefer fruity depending on one's preference. Because of the demand of this perfumes, many people have decided to start up shops selling these products and for those who cannot access the products in the malls, the internet is also available with all the different kinds of perfumes.
One thing I have realized about these perfumes is that they show the class you fall in. This seems like a joke but some products are too expensive and only suits stylish people who can simply affordable to purchase the products. Perfumes have choices and that is why you easily find slim girls wearing sweet fragrance, they believe that it is the only way to have men attract to them. If you have noticed, men prefer scents that are too strong and this has worked for them to have girls around them and some reaching an extent of buying Men colognes just to smell the scent of a certain guy. Besides all this, selecting the best perfume to use may become a problem, this is because there are many products on display and yet so beautiful and attractive.
Probably the only way to go through this is by following some instructions that can guide you to get something nice.The first thing to do is to have a sniff test; this is just to help you get the best scent and a perfume that lasts long. To get the really test, you can spray on the wrist and fingers but not clothes. Avoid sampling many fragrances because you may fail to choose something nice or become confused about the so many perfumes. There are samples put a side, these can be of help. It is always better to know which perfume suits your body or skin type. Once you have this in mind, you will get the best perfume.
To have the best results of this product, it is better to know when to use it. The favorable time is after a bath, it is believed that the body is fresh and it will just absorb the fragrance giving a long lasting scent. The best parts to dab the perfume include ears, neck, wrists as well as arms. Please take note, don't spray on clothes because you may stain them. Sometimes, the weather may determine the type of perfume to use. A nice perfume will definitely add value to your status and by the way, it can be the best present to give to a friend. Online has a variety of different kinds of perfumes at an affordable rate, therefore don't hesitate go get a sweet fragrance that will attract many people.
One thing I have realized about these perfumes is that they show the class you fall in. This seems like a joke but some products are too expensive and only suits stylish people who can simply affordable to purchase the products. Perfumes have choices and that is why you easily find slim girls wearing sweet fragrance, they believe that it is the only way to have men attract to them. If you have noticed, men prefer scents that are too strong and this has worked for them to have girls around them and some reaching an extent of buying Men colognes just to smell the scent of a certain guy. Besides all this, selecting the best perfume to use may become a problem, this is because there are many products on display and yet so beautiful and attractive.
Probably the only way to go through this is by following some instructions that can guide you to get something nice.The first thing to do is to have a sniff test; this is just to help you get the best scent and a perfume that lasts long. To get the really test, you can spray on the wrist and fingers but not clothes. Avoid sampling many fragrances because you may fail to choose something nice or become confused about the so many perfumes. There are samples put a side, these can be of help. It is always better to know which perfume suits your body or skin type. Once you have this in mind, you will get the best perfume.
To have the best results of this product, it is better to know when to use it. The favorable time is after a bath, it is believed that the body is fresh and it will just absorb the fragrance giving a long lasting scent. The best parts to dab the perfume include ears, neck, wrists as well as arms. Please take note, don't spray on clothes because you may stain them. Sometimes, the weather may determine the type of perfume to use. A nice perfume will definitely add value to your status and by the way, it can be the best present to give to a friend. Online has a variety of different kinds of perfumes at an affordable rate, therefore don't hesitate go get a sweet fragrance that will attract many people.
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